Getting to know each other is an obligatory stage of communication with people around you. Of course, it is easier to contact old friends: these people are aware of your character, habits and other individual characteristics. And new people have to tell everything all over again. It's good if we're talking about O casual conversation in the company of friends! But often you have to talk about yourself in in writing, sometimes even in official documents. All kinds of profiles, resumes, accounts and interest clubs can’t wait for you to tell them information about yourself. For some, this is a mere formality, limited to a couple of standard sentences. But it happens that a lot depends on your description. In this case, you need to write about yourself not only honestly and competently, but also as interestingly as possible, so that your story does not get lost among other similar autobiographies.

Telling a story about yourself, whether spoken or written, is not easy for everyone. There are people for whom self-presentation is a habitual and even pleasant thing; they willingly share facts from their biography and present them in an exciting way, like a literary work. But for the majority, the need to write about themselves, and even in a special way, non-standard style, is a serious test of their natural shyness, creative imagination, and just writing talent. For such people, we have prepared a kind of “cheat sheet” with tips and some tips about how to start, build and design your work so that readers would be interested in reading about you even if no outstanding events occurred in your life, the description of which could become the basis of an adventure novel. In fact, everything is much simpler: even the biography of an average person who leads the calmest and most peaceful life can be read avidly if it is written in an interesting way.

Telling a story about yourself: rules, nuances and tips
An interesting feature of autobiography as a genre is that the same person can have any number of descriptions of his life. Moreover, life also remains one, and all the events that happened in it are true. But, depending on the style, purpose, and writing conditions, these works turn out completely different. As in any text, while maintaining one plot, an almost infinite number of plot development options are possible, where the narrative will be chronologically sequential or artistically distorted, logically correct or creatively adapted. As they say, there is a time and place for everything, and an autobiography when applying for a job has little in common with self-presentation when applying to a theater school. The only factor that unites them is you, or rather, the actual events of your life. Therefore, let’s first determine why and for what purpose you needed to write about yourself. The most common options are:

1. When applying for a job, study or service. This is the shortest, essentially formal and therefore simplest option. It is not difficult to cope with it even without special tips, especially since in such cases the autobiography, as a rule, is written according to, right down to filling out the questionnaire. But even if in front of you blank slate paper, you are only required to present in chronological order basic information about the time and place of your birth, education received, professional experience and, in brief, marital status. Formal autobiographies do not require more. An exception may be the biographies of representatives creative professions: journalists, copywriters, editors. They are subject to more requirements in terms of the used vocabulary and perhaps examples of work. But a portfolio is a separate task and it is also formed according to its own standards, independent of the autobiography.
   
2. When joining a thematic organization/club/section More detailed information about the candidate may be required. Depending on the direction of the establishment, include the relevant data in the list. For example, tell us about the sports awards, diplomas, medals and certificates won for participation and victories in Olympiads, intellectual games and competitions. If we are talking about a creative workshop, then it would not be amiss to talk about your preferences and tastes, favorite genres and techniques, idols and role models. The task of your biography is in this case– reveal your own character to people who don’t know anything about you yet, and join their established team. Therefore, the more friendly and open your written story is, the more likely it will resonate and you are more likely to receive an invitation to an in-person oral interview.
   
3. When registering on a social network/dating site There are not and cannot be any hard and fast rules. But there are certain techniques that can be used to make your story about yourself interesting and attractive to other users. For example, many representatives of the fair sex use poems, lyrics of their favorite songs or quotes from literary works for this purpose, which, in their opinion, correspond to their character and worldview. This tactic should be considered quite ingenious, because, in the absence of confidence in your own literary talent, you can take advantage of the win-win creation of a recognized genius. One way or another, your task is to create the image you need in the eyes of strangers, and even invisible to you, people. And for this it is not at all necessary to adhere to documentary accuracy. Allow yourself a little fiction, complete the picture in your imagination own image so that you like it - then others whose tastes coincide with yours will like it. But don’t get carried away with fantasizing - you are still writing about yourself, and not creating a fictitious image of an ideal, but, alas, non-existent person.
   
4. When creating your own blog and/or literary work It’s interesting to write about yourself, it’s easy and difficult at the same time. On the one hand, for a professional writer, telling a story about yourself is not even a job, but pleasant stay, bordering on subtle intellectual pleasure. And, since you have dared to become an independent “parent” of an entire book or tool mass media(and a blog can easily be equated to an information publication), then writing an original and fascinating autobiography should not be a problem for you. On the other hand, it is self-narrative that takes many professionals by surprise. Because it’s one thing to analyze and present information within the framework of a well-studied and interesting topic. And it’s quite another thing to reveal yourself to readers as a person, to demonstrate to them not only your fundamental knowledge, erudition and talent, but also traits characteristic of mere mortals, sometimes far from the qualities of an ideal creator. Plus, not all creative personalities are identical in their desire to speak publicly. And for writers, unlike actors and musicians, this causes many internal barriers: embarrassment, fear of excessive frankness, etc. In this case, it is advisable to call on your sense of humor to help. A successful joke can disguise unsightly facts and even turn them into advantages, or it can simply fill a pause or fill the content with unexpected meaning.
   

These recommendations were not invented yesterday, or even last week, according to similar canons, biographies have been created at all times, starting with the most ancient events in the history of mankind. Depending on the incidents and cultural values ​​of that time, not only and not so much facts of personal life were documented, but socially significant achievements. Thus, the eastern kings wrote down stories about their military victories, the ancient military leaders took over the baton from them, and Julius Caesar subsequently created “Notes on the Gallic War,” which are both a manual on military affairs and a fascinating story about the events of those times.

Medieval philosophers, travelers and even skilled craftsmen described their lives for students and descendants. The genre of autobiography then gained such popularity that it even became an independent literary movement, the classic and witty parody example of which remains, for example, “The Adventures of Baron Munchausen” by Rudolf Raspe. It is difficult to remember at least one writer who did not publish a description in his books own life. It was possible to find out a lot of details about even the most mysterious personalities with the help of their personal diaries and correspondence. By the way, the epistolary genre is inexhaustible source inspiration when writing a story about yourself. After all, people try to be sincere in letters and trust the recipients with a lot of secret things. This can serve as a good school and a storehouse of ideas for you. So don’t be lazy to read biographies famous people, feel free to borrow interesting techniques and speech patterns from them.

Example interesting story about myself
So, with theoretical aspect We’ve figured out how to write a story about ourselves, it’s time to move on to practice. Because no one but you will write a biography about you in such a way as to reveal to readers all the facets of your character and bright personality. Don’t forget that the most difficult thing is to start, to overcome the resistance of a blank sheet of paper. And then, word by word, the story will flow by itself if you allow yourself to surrender to creativity. You can gain such emancipation gradually, to do this, start with something simple: first write a formal autobiography, then expand it with introductory phrases and artistic vocabulary, and then completely blossom beautiful images and literary devices. And each next option save it separately, it will be useful to you in the appropriate situation. This way, you will receive the blanks of several stories about yourself at once and will be able to use and modify them as necessary.

Example of a formal autobiography:

“I, Ivanov Ivan Ivanovich, was born on June 13, 1980 in Kyiv. In 1987, he was admitted to the first class of secondary school No. 13, from which he graduated in 1997 with honors. In the same year he entered Kyiv University national university them. T.G. Shevchenko to the Faculty of Philosophy, majoring in Political Science. During his studies at the university, he completed full training in the reserve officer training program and received the title " junior lieutenant" He graduated from the university in 2002 with a degree in political science. Immediately after completing his studies, he began working at a news agency as an analyst and consultant to the editor-in-chief. In 2008, I took the position of editor of the politics department, which I hold to this day.

I am married and have a 7-year-old son and a 2-year-old daughter. Wife, Anna Valentinovna Ivanova, born in 1986, a journalist by training, works for a monthly publication. I am interested in photography and painting, and love to travel. I'm leading healthy image life, I regularly go to the gym and go on bike rides. Bad habits I don’t have one; I prefer to spend my free time from work with my family and on active recreation.”

Now let’s imagine that this person, already a little familiar to us, decided to join the ranks of the club of travel photojournalists. The club is virtual, the main communication between its participants takes place on its own forum on the Internet. And now our friend will have to register and greet the old-timers of the club, at the same time explaining to them who he is, why and why he came to the forum. The text of the story about yourself in that case will differ significantly from the one given above. It could be, for example, like this:

An example of an interesting autobiography:

“Dear friends, allow me to introduce myself! My name may seem funny to you at first glance, but believe me: it is real. That’s exactly what my parents named me, thanks to their sense of humor, and that’s what it says in my passport - and this, by the way, is an official document! In general, my name is Vanya, my last name is Ivanov. You can start making fun. But it will be even easier to remember me this way J

I have been interested in photography for quite a long time, for about seven years now. But, unfortunately, I only recently learned about your community. I really hope that you don’t have hazing and that newcomers are not barred from entering the club. Because your work and accumulated experience interested me extremely. I had the courage to look through the photo gallery presented on the site, and I am ready to take off my hat to the authors of these photographs. The accuracy of the reporting, the quality of the photographs, and the artistic flair of the photographers are very impressive. For my part, I promise that I will make every effort to live up to this high level and present your creativity with dignity.

As for me personally, I am a very ordinary person and practically not outstanding in anything. I make a living doing what I love most and what I know best: building hypotheses and making forecasts about the political situation in our country and beyond. It’s a troublesome and thankless task, but someone has to do it. But at home, waiting for me is an almost adult son, a first-grader, a sweet daughter, and, of course, my beloved and only wife, Anya. All three of them, by the way, also know a lot about travel and beautiful photographs.

In general, if I have not yet tired you too much with my biography and can be at least somehow useful to the respected community, then I will be very glad to be accepted into its ranks. I promise to be disciplined, polite and obediently follow all the rules of the club. A special greeting to all Kiev residents and an invitation to Sunday bike rides. To everyone else - just my immense affection and Best wishes J"

Do you feel the difference between the first and second text? It is completely justified and caused by the specifics of communication and the purpose of the story about oneself. Analysis of the features of the given texts will help you understand the nuances of presenting information and in the future can be used by you when writing your own biography:

1. In both cases, the author did not sin against the truth and provided truthful information about himself. But in the second story, he deliberately omitted those facts that were not relevant to the case. But I included in the first paragraphs what might be of interest directly to this group of readers. A very correct tactic from the point of view of self-presentation - it takes into account the interests and characteristics of the audience’s perception.
   
2. The same goes for presentation style and vocabulary. In the first case, it is dry and official, as required by the documents. In the second, it is replete with colloquial expressions, figurative expressions and other means of language that are unacceptable in business correspondence. But for a group of friends with similar interests, this language will be the most understandable and pleasant.
   
3. Unlike the first, strictly text, in the second story the author makes full use of humor and personal charm, expressed through language. He verbally paints before the readers the image of a kind of joker and light man, conducive to oneself. This great way make the story about yourself interesting because it hides the roughness of written language due to the ease of friendly chatter.
   
4. In the second story, the author constantly maintains contact with readers. Talking about himself, he managed not to focus on his beloved self, but to always address the audience. Use this technique to interest the reader, because every person enjoys being given special attention.
   
5. The author even took into account the fact that his story about himself would be perceived not aurally, but visually, and on a platform intended for interactive communication. That is why he allowed himself to use graphic symbols that were unacceptable in printed correspondence or a handwritten note. You can do the same: if you need to write about yourself on the Internet, then feel free to use emoticons and Unicode characters. But use them in doses, do not overload the text, because an excessive number of pictures irritates the reader.
   

As you can see, when in the right mood and with preliminary theoretical preparation, writing about yourself in an interesting and not dry way is not at all difficult. Finally, let me give you one final piece of advice. Before you start your story, make a list for yourself in which you list a few of your brightest and most characteristic features. These could be character traits, outstanding achievements, or simply fun facts past. By describing each of them, you will be carried away by the memories and involuntarily make the text fascinating and expressive. And it will be much more interesting for readers to learn about non-standard situations, rather than the average “born/studied/worked”. In general, write in such a way that it would be interesting for you to read about yourself, as if in front of you was the biography of some other, unfamiliar, but witty, cheerful and friendly person.

How best to tell about yourself in different situations for casual acquaintance or for professional purposes? You probably find this task scary and daunting. But with a little thought and looking inside yourself, you can find the words with which you will reveal your personality. Start with the first step and you will find some tips to help you introduce yourself. You can also use the sections displayed above to find answers to more specific questions.

Steps

How to talk about yourself at an interview

Find out more about the company. Each company has its own unique face, your culture. If you describe qualities that reflect the company's values, you will demonstrate that you are collaborative and proactive.

• For example, if you're interviewing for an entry-level position at a technology startup, try talking about your interest in and experience working with innovative technologies, products and your desire to work in the creative team of a start-up company.

1. Be prepared to be asked to talk about yourself during the interview. If you think through possible answers to common questions, you can figure things out in advance.

   • If you make a list of your qualities or accomplishments, it will be easier for you to identify which traits are great value, and which ones can not be mentioned, since they will be superfluous.

2. Research the position you are applying for. Please read the job description carefully. Pay attention to what responsibilities the position entails and what skills the applicant needs to have. Demonstrate your interest and ability to perform the required responsibilities.

   • If you are interviewing for a management position, you can share what management strategies you used while in a similar position at a similar company. For example: “I am a sales director at a company. I recently entered new program to track our sales progress."
   • If you are interviewing for an assistant position, you can talk about your ability to perform different tasks at the same time or give an example that demonstrates excellent organizational skills: “I am currently an assistant to four employees of the company. They are pleased with my organizational skills and communication skills. Recently they assigned me to deal with all organizational work in the office."
   • If you are interviewing for an entry-level position, you can talk about your ability to adapt quickly and your desire to receive new experience. For example: “I recently graduated from university and did an internship in offset printing, but I want to gain more experience and opportunities to deepen my knowledge.”
   • As a promising university graduate, show that you can put your knowledge to practical use. You can show off your best self if you talk about your scientific accomplishments, interests, travel plans, and other things you value: “I'm interested in making paper by hand and doing my own experiments. I’m really interested in how I can use this experience in your book making courses.”

3. Describe yourself as not empty and in general phrases, and using specific examples what you did. If you are an excellent organizer and write on your resume that you have good organizational skills, this will not be enough. But if you talk about a specific case where you were tasked with organizing a large conference with a hundred senior executives in attendance, your abilities will be more visible.

   Practice the interview with your friend. Perhaps he will be able to adequately evaluate you and advise you on what is worth talking about and what not.

   You must understand the difference between self-confidence and overconfidence. It is perfectly acceptable to talk about your accomplishments as long as they are truthful and relevant to the conversation. If you talk about your achievements and good qualities, without evidence or if it is inappropriate, it can be to your detriment.

   Be positive. Accentuate your positive qualities and don't criticize yourself.

   Speak about yourself briefly and clearly. An interview is not the time to talk about your entire life. Describe yourself and your achievements as briefly as possible.

   Be professional. Choose words that describe you as a competent professional. Avoid words like "cool", "sexy", "cool" or "cute".

   Create a quick resume. It is also called an “elevator pitch.” This is a condensed story about yourself and your activities. This speech highlights the most important and memorable things about you. Here are some questions that you can answer to help you create your resume:

   • Who am I? "I am a writer." “I'm a recruiter.” “I'm the administrator.”
   • What organization do I work for? “I work for an online art publication.” “I work for a start-up IT company.” “I work for a small non-profit business.”
   • What are my functions in this organization? “I review local exhibitions for an international online art magazine.” “I am engaged in the search and employment of new talents for the development of specialized software" “I am involved in adjusting business plans for startups.”

4. Find what you like about your job and focus on it. By answering the previous questions, you may find it easier to identify your values ​​and passions. Use them to condense your answers into a short, to-the-point presentation:

   • “I write articles for an online publication about art that has readers from different countries. This is a great opportunity as I attend local exhibitions and do reviews.”
   • “I am a recruiting manager for a small start-up IT company. I discover new talents, meet and communicate with them.”
   • “I am an administrator at a small non-profit business. I offer support to start-up companies who want to improve their business plan.”

5. Listen to others. Instead of starting a conversation with stories about yourself, ask questions. If you give the other person the opportunity to talk about himself, you will learn more about him and his needs.

How to tell about yourself on your page on a social network or on a dating site

1. • If you like to travel, write where you have been last time and why you would like to visit there again.
   • If you consider yourself a foodie, why not mention a couple of your favorite restaurants or a great meal you cooked last weekend?
   • If you're an art lover, talk about a type of art you love or an exhibition you recently visited.

2. Throw away all negativity. When talking about yourself, focus on what you are love– both in yourself and in the world around you.

   • Post a meaningful and positive description of your appearance, for example: “brown-eyed brunette with curls, beautiful shoulders and even a better smile.”
   • A little humor will help you stand out from the crowd. A sense of humor says a lot about your personality and can help you appear more down-to-earth and approachable. For example: “I have a black belt in cooking. I can kill you with one pancake.”

   Warnings

   • Always be careful when discussing personal details online or directly with a person. Please remember that any information you post online may be available to others.

Although you and I know that we are very mysterious and silent. Don't feed us bread - let us be silent once again. What remains to be done? After all, as soon as you open your mouth, hints of feminine logic and accusations of all mortal sins...

For example, a friend of mine once very enthusiastically shared her news with a group of classmates. At the meeting they asked her: what interesting things do you have to tell? And she leads a busy and interesting life, she usually has a lot of news, and she tells them with all the nuances and details. And so, when the apotheosis came in her story (somewhere in the second hour), she said admiringly:
- I also went to a therapeutic group, and there we had a period of aggression towards each other. And several people said that they wanted to... strangle me...
“And I understand them very much,” muttered a classmate with whom they had sat at the same desk for the last five years and doted on each other. After that they never met again...
So try to give yourself free rein here and chat from the heart! Only in the company of women you can relax and tell in order everything that happened to you during those three weeks...

That women love (and also hate, think and act) with their ears is confirmed even by their reservations. I remember my friend and I were sitting in a cafe, and a handsome young man was having lunch at the table opposite. So what do you think? She made eyes at him and smiled mysteriously, but he didn’t look at all. He finished chewing his dumplings, got up and calmly walked out. The friend’s amazement knew no bounds:
- Was he really able to miss my gaze, full of prayer and romanticism, PAST THEIR EARS?!!
But I could. And all because she, bullied by her relatives (“Are you going to keep quiet or not?! My head is already pounding!!!”), was afraid to seem like a chatterbox and start talking to a handsome stranger. Or maybe he just likes chatterboxes?! Moreover, he himself did not even open his mouth (except in order to send another portion of dumplings there), and harmonious pairs are formed according to the principle of complementation. However, maybe he simply had no one to talk to - not to himself. And in fact, he is a desperate talker - one of those whose mouth does not close for a minute. “I can’t imagine how you can live with such a person!” - a friend is sincerely indignant, from whose twitter everyone in the family has been hanging themselves for a long time.

The boyfriend persistently asked his other friend to marry her, despite the fact that their relationship seemed to be firmly limited to trips to cafes and a boring bed. And she believed that a husband should be not only a lover, but also a friend. This means it should be pleasant to talk to him. And one day the question was asked: what interesting thing can you tell me? You don’t tell me anything... And you don’t ask me anything...
- Well, I’ll make a clown out of myself. “Katenka, what’s new with you? And here’s what I have...” Well, that’s not interesting to me!
- What are you interested in anyway?
- I'm interested in sleeping with you. Is this not enough?
...It turned out that it was not enough. Katerina indignantly reported that she could collect forty people on the street who were interested in her in three minutes, and it was not at all necessary to marry them - they were all interchangeable. After that, their relationship was forever limited to cold nods at casual meetings.

In fact, according to deep scientific data, girls begin to speak earlier than boys. That’s probably why they grow up to be chatterboxes more often: they have more experience. Treat your vocal apparatus better. Their voice range is wider: three octaves versus two for men. And in general, talking is more common for them. This is how it happened historically. This primitive men I had to chase mammoths. And the primitive women sat by the fire, waited for them, knitted primitive socks and exchanged simple primitive thoughts. And in general, they say, humanity owes the development of speech to women - they dug up some 200,000-year-old woman who found traces of a mutation that led to the transformation of monkey cries into something articulate. But now we have nothing left to develop. So, we met, locked tongues - and the day passed. Although...

We met one day - three classmates who had not seen each other for five years. Well, now let’s chat, what interesting things can you tell us? We met while visiting a young mother who wanted to keep her son busy with some useful activity while we talked. She poured a construction set onto the floor for him, explaining to us along the way that “tactile activity develops speech activity.” After which we all crawled off the sofa to our son and began to build houses and cars out of construction sets, so carried away by the tactile activity that our speech activity left us completely. They didn’t find out that day who spent those five years how...

But seriously... Psychologists say: how you speak is how you live. Quietly and modestly, so that no one can hear you? Or hastily, excitedly? Or blocking everyone and everything with decibels? Or... In general, if you don’t like your own voice, you probably don’t like your life. And we need to work with this. Because muscle tension is a sign of presence psychological problems. The Americans, for example, have developed a whole system of exercises called “Voice Liberation.” Force people to scream at the top of their lungs, make a wide variety of sounds and use their voices full force. They say that those who take a course in voice work become much happier and achieve great success in life. But talking a lot does not mean speaking well. So let's get busy. And let those who call us chatterboxes shut up. We don't chat, we live!

In general, we are mysterious and silent. Don't feed us bread - let us be silent for an extra minute...

In this article you will learn about what topics of conversation exist with men.

A correctly posed question can become a successful start to a dialogue and influence your relationship with a man. In order not to get confused in important point and always interest your interlocutor, it is important to know in advance what you can and should ask him about.

Questions for correspondence:

• Hello! How are you spending your evening?
• How are you feeling today?
• What are your plans? What are you doing?
• How to cheer you up?
• I want to surprise you with something, do you think I can do it?
• Hello! Let's play something?
• I want adventure, and you?
• There are evenings when it’s especially boring, don’t you think?
• Mortal melancholy! Can you recommend any good movie?
• How did you spend your day? Was he successful today?
• Would you like to chat with a dreary but terribly interesting person?
• I'm boiling inside, don't you want to listen?
• Let's spend the evening together?
• Have you watched this series (title)?
• I love music, can you give me a couple of great tracks?
• Long time no chat, how are you? What has changed?
• Do you still play sports (fishing, basketball, dancing)?
• Heard latest news about (person's name)?
• When was the last time you went to the cinema? Maybe we can go see something together?
• I’m listening to a great track, you’ll definitely like it, can I send it to you?
• Do you remember how we danced to this song? (drop track)
• Hello! I already forgot what you look like, maybe we can meet?

What questions can you ask a guy when talking on the phone: list

Questions for a telephone conversation:

• I haven't heard from you for ages, how are you?
• How nice it is to hear your voice! Are you okay?
• Thanks for calling! I hope nothing happened to you?
• It's good that you called! Let's agree that you will call me more often?
• Hello, are you bored tonight?
• Hello, have you forgotten my voice yet?
• Hello! Guess who's calling?
• I'll give you 3 chances to guess my name. Will you try?
• Hello! Do you want some fun tonight?
• How would you like me to invite you to have a couple of cocktails together?

What questions can you ask a guy when meeting him: list

• Dear, does your mother need a daughter-in-law by any chance?
• I’m sure I saw you somewhere, maybe in my dreams?
• Are you by any chance the man of my dreams?
• I really want to meet you, won’t you leave your phone number?
• My mom will definitely like you, let's check it out?
• I've never seen anything like this in my life handsome man! Have you already been told something like this?
• Will you leave me your phone number so we can talk later and have a good time?
• Do you happen to want a new romantic and completely crazy relationship?
• I liked you at first sight, and you liked me?

IMPORTANT: Do not hesitate to ask a man even the most “piquant” questions, getting to know him better.

What questions can you ask a guy to get him interested?

Question options:

• Do you like my eyes?
• People often tell me that I look good, what do you think?
• I have a feeling that we knew each other, don't you think so?
• I have many interests, would you like to share some?
• I'm sorry, but can I fall in love with you?
• You have a beautiful look, have you heard that before?
• How often do you go on dates? I want to invite you to another one!
• How long have you watched a movie with kissing spots?
• I was once told that I am a good kisser, would you like to check it out?
• Have you ever drank champagne under the moon? I don't. Let's try it together?

What questions can you ask a guy on a first date?

Every woman's dream - perfect date. It can only go well if you know exactly what you can talk about on a date. Preliminary preparation of topics and questions can help you with this.

Good question options:

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What questions can you ask a guy when communicating?

If communication with a man is established, you can fully count on signs of attention from him. Try to ask him as many questions as possible about his hobbies and passions.

Things to talk about:

Conversation Ideas

What questions will tell you more about a man? What can you ask a guy?

When you get to know your beloved man better, you will be able to understand what your life with him will be like in the future. Use a selection of “interesting” questions designed to obtain as much detailed information as possible.

Things to ask:

Themes and ideas

What questions and what can you ask a guy you like?

It’s very easy to “scare off” the guy you like with a funny or inappropriate question, so choose your phrases carefully and take into account all the features of your relationship.

Ideas:

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What questions can you ask your boyfriend, your beloved?

If your relationship has already started, you should not let your guard down and relax. Try to remain interested in your man's life. This way you can earn his trust and attention!

Conversation starter ideas:

Selection

What question can I ask a guy to find out if he likes me?

Very often a woman is tormented by questions about mutual sympathy On the man’s part, try to ask him about it directly and independently by asking a delicate question.

Conversation ideas:

Selection

Questions for meeting a guy on the Internet, VKontakte?

Suitable topics:

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Interesting questions for a guy, on any topic: list

A love relationship is not only about sex and attention, it is also about conversations and mutual interests. Don't lose the thread of understanding by asking your partner questions about his personal life, adventures, successes and women.

Suitable topics:

What can you ask?

What intimate questions can you ask a guy?

Questions like these will help you improve your sex life, make adjustments to it and set rules. Feel free to talk to your partner about sex.

Conversation ideas:

"Intimate" selection

What erotic questions can you ask a guy?

There is one secret: every man not only loves sex, but also any conversations about sex. Feel free to be interested in any topics about sex: experience, technique, number of women.

Conversation ideas:

Erotic compilation

What kind of dirty questions can you ask a guy?

Every man has his hidden sexual fantasies and dreams, by talking to him about this, you not only give him your attention, but also show him love.

Conversation ideas:

"Vulgar" selection

What tricky, tricky questions can you ask a guy?

Do you want to surprise your man? Intrigue? Show that you are not such a simple person? Feel free to ask him unusual questions and let him try to answer them!

Conversation ideas:

"Tricky" selection

What “unusual” questions can you ask a guy?

Surprising the man you love is not easy, but try asking him a non-standard question and see how he answers it!

Ways to start a conversation:

What to ask your “other half”?

What “frank” questions can you ask a guy?

The line between an interesting and an unnecessary question is very thin. With the help of “frank” questions, you can not only become closer, but also ruin your entire relationship. Try to choose the right topics for conversation.

What to talk about:

Original selection

What romantic questions can you ask a guy?

Having learned some nuances about the romantic nature of your beloved man, you will be able to understand what your relationship will be like in the future.

What to ask about:

What questions about love and relationships can you ask a guy?

Relationships are difficult work and if you do not discuss some of the nuances between each other, you can lose understanding and trust.

Suitable questions:

Selection “love”

What questions can you ask a guy to confuse him?

Conversation ideas:

• Are you just looking at me or do you have special plans for me?
• Tell me honestly: do you want me?
• Am I attracted to you as a woman?
• Would you like me to show you something interesting?
• Do you think I can surprise you in bed?
• Is this your friend or lover?
• Have you ever slept with your friends' girlfriends?

Video: “Men’s questions?”

Meeting new people always causes excitement, trepidation, embarrassment and a sea of ​​other emotions depending on psychological state person. The first impression is the most correct, so it is very important what it is. The first awkward minutes of silence can be easily avoided by talking about you or asking the other person to talk about themselves. The most important thing here is not to cross the line of obsession and monotony. The story should be interesting and provocative positive emotions and the interlocutor's participation in the conversation.

What you can tell about yourself depends on the gender, status, and age of the interlocutor. By general principles in communication with unfamiliar people You should not mention your problems, talk about too personal topics and discuss mutual friends if you do not know what kind of relationship they are in. What interesting things can you tell me? Topics should be neutral, interesting, and evoke light, pleasant emotions.

Communication with a girl

What can you tell a girl? When meeting a beautiful lady, it is important to immediately answer yourself the following questions: what impression you want to make on her and what goals you are pursuing. It must be remembered that boasting, whining and obsession, the desire, as they say, to get into the soul will only cause negative emotions, and, most likely, the girl will no longer have the desire to date. Absurd pauses and excitement, ingratiation or aggression can lead to bewilderment. Be confident! Respect yourself and your interlocutor! Stay calm even if something doesn't go according to plan! What can you tell a girl? Let's consider the most interesting and neutral topics:

1. In what area do you operate?
2. Favorite activities in free time.
3. Children's dream.
4. The riskiest thing you've ever done in your life.
5. Favorite films, you can also discuss the latest releases.
6. Favorite music.
7. Jokes.
8. Favorite animals, pets.
9. The sport you play.
10. Countries and travels visited.
11. You can ask the girl how she perceives you.
12. Favorite places, etc.

Laughter and interesting conversation will be a pleasant pastime and will make you want to repeat the meeting.

Chatting with a friend

What can you tell a friend? With your close friend, you can discuss all the problems and troubles that happen in your life, the main thing is that the solution to your problems does not become tedious every hour, does not cause rejection in the interlocutor and does not lead to depression.

You can discuss common hobbies, acquaintances, changes in your field of activity, the political situation if it interests you, and many other topics. The main thing is to remember that every person has the right to defend his position - this cannot cause conflict and rupture friendly relations. To avoid competition for a girl with a friend, it is better to hide your true sympathies for your chosen half, since your enthusiastic stories may interest your friend and encourage him to take a closer look at the object of emotional excitement.

What can you tell a guy?

Few girls manage to easily find a topic of conversation or talk about themselves, their lives to a stranger, and especially the guy she likes. Meanwhile, tightness and silence can be interpreted as a sign that the interlocutor is not interesting to you. What can you tell about yourself to interest a guy and at the same time leave a mystery that you would like to solve on subsequent dates?

First, it's not just what you say, but how you say it. So, you need to speak confidently and enthusiastically, captivating your interlocutor interesting topics. In addition, look the guy in the eyes and flirt a little. A sparkling look and a seductive, charming smile will not leave anyone indifferent. Men love with their eyes, so even if the guy loses the thread of your story, attractive appearance and behavior will tell him much more.

Secondly, do not interrupt and let everyone speak freely! The fact is that men love to be listened to and admired. So don't refuse representatives strong half humanity in this.

Topics

We bring to your attention a few more topics that will answer the question of what you can tell about yourself.

1. Describe the countries and sights that made a lasting impression on you
2. Places we dream of visiting.
3. Funny and interesting situations from life that you can laugh at or just smile at.
4. Describe your lifestyle.
5. A hobby, preferably if it is not shopping. It's good if you are involved in or are interested in any kind of sport.
6. You can discuss your favorite books or films, as well as new products that have recently appeared on the screen.
7. Leisure time and how you like to spend it.
8. Tell us about your pet.
9. You can watch and discuss some funny video together.
10. Risky action, etc.

It's important not to tell young man about yours ex-boyfriends, especially not to compare old and new relationships out loud, especially if you have far-reaching plans for your interlocutor. Excessive frank information can give rise to insecurity or jealousy of the past in a person, which after some time will unknowingly lead to frequent quarrels.

Conclusion

Now you know what you can tell about yourself. We hope that our tips will help you in communicating with friends, as well as objects of the opposite sex.