Hello to all readers of the old womanizer's blog! When a guy communicates with a lady and feels that he likes her, it can be difficult to admit his sympathy. Beauties can react differently, so you need to do this carefully so as not to “scare off the prey.” Today I will consider all the nuances of proper recognition and answer your main question: how to tell a girl that I like her.

Why are guys afraid to admit their feelings?

Nature endowed men with courage, strength and boldness and decided that this was all they needed for a successful existence. However, in matters of love, men are helpless and powerless like little children. A young man, under the influence of sympathy for his chosen one, gradually loses control over his mind, and this makes him vulnerable. He thinks a lot about her, strives for communication, meetings, but misses the most important thing - a declaration of sympathy. Other reasons for young people’s fear may also be added to this:

• low self-esteem (“I’m not worthy of her”, “I’m nothing to her”);
• the girl’s great popularity (they tell her such things every day);
• lack of experience in communicating with ladies;
• consequences of unsuccessful relationships with the opposite sex;
• fear of refusal of reciprocity;
• uncertainty about your feelings (what if it’s just sympathy?);
• fear of becoming a laughing stock (she will tell all her friends and girlfriends, and everyone will laugh at me).

This fear especially arises when a guy communicates with a very beautiful lady who has many admirers. But all fears can be overcome if you know the basic principles in communicating with the girl you like.

What to do before hinting about sympathy

You communicate with a girl and that you like her, but first it would be nice to find out about her attitude towards you. What is needed for this:

• spend more time with her - this will show how she treats you;
• communicate not only “live”, but also on social networks - people are more liberated on the Internet;
• look into the eyes of your chosen one more often - the eyes usually “give up” those who breathe unevenly;
• take an interest in her life - if the lady herself has warm feelings for you, then you don’t need to ask her much, she herself will tell you everything in good spirit (practice shows);
• caring for her is elementary: hold her hand when leaving, offer a chair, if she likes you, she will certainly appreciate your efforts;
• ask your friends about her attitude towards you - but there is no guarantee that they won’t tell her about it;
• offer all possible help - ladies love it when men solve their problems and will refuse this only if there is no sympathy.

If such actions do not provide a complete picture of your relationship, you can make a “knight’s move” - openly ask her about how she feels about you. It’s 50/50 here - either she won’t find anything to say or will say: “You’re just a friend to me,” or she’ll be forced to admit her sympathy first. This method is suitable for confident guys.

What is important for a guy to know for successful communication?

We will talk about important points that will help a young man take a step towards winning a girl. So, let’s figure out what principles every “inspired” guy needs to adhere to:

1. Positive attitude.

An optimistic guy will have good luck in all his endeavors, including love ones. Here you need to be confident and purposeful, and under no circumstances back down; girls appreciate confident men. Weak-willed and cowardly boys (namely boys - you can’t call them men) risk remaining in the friend zone forever.

1. External presentability.

The neatness of a young man wins over him faster than his appearance. Therefore, young people just need:

• Take a bath or shower regularly;
• shave, get a haircut;
• wear clean clothes;
• Don't spare money on perfume.

In the latter case, you can even do this: buy perfume and ask the beauty if she likes it, if she likes it, then you can safely use it and be sure that she likes your smell. If you feel that this is not enough to show sympathy for a girl, you can work on yourself and your body: going to sports clubs, playing sports will not only improve your appearance, but also give you more confidence in yourself and your abilities.

1. Tact.

A sense of tact will allow a man to develop one of the main components of a love relationship - respect for his other half. Therefore, if a young man intends to commit himself and his future bride to a serious relationship, then he needs to be restrained and calm in his communication. What does this mean? Do not use obscene language, slang, or tricky jokes, including those directed at her. This way the lady will easily begin to trust you, and your communication will become more relaxed.

1. Less thoughts - more actions.

As one humorist said: “If you look at a girl for a long time, you can see how she gets married.” You can endlessly think about a beautiful person, dream, imagine yourself with her, dedicate poems, but you can miss the moment of rapprochement and someone else will win your chosen one. Therefore, if you like a girl very much, you cannot put off confessing your sympathy.

1. Openness in communication.

This means freely expressing your thoughts and feelings, and being open to different topics of communication. Representatives of the fairer sex feel calmer in the company of that guy about whom everyone or almost everyone knows (a parrot strangled in childhood, or described pants do not count). This way the girl will understand that you have no secrets from her, and she will trust you with her secrets. Openness in conversation can play a positive role in your rapprochement, for example, you can act like this:

• start talking about a serious relationship;
• to say that there are so few people in the world who value love and feelings;
• listen to her opinion (and it will most likely be the same);
• hint that you would like to truly love and be loved;
• pause and watch her reaction (it may be ambiguous);
• Continue the conversation (change the topic if she is confused, or continue if she shows interest in the issue).

If fear continues to haunt you, you can use the following technique: observing yourself from the outside, rehearsing phrases in front of a mirror or your best friend. All this will help prepare the ground for a confession of sympathy, and we’ll talk about how best to do this later.

How to hint to a girl that I like her

Every young man who has experience communicating with the fair sex already knows how to hint to a girl about his sympathy; let’s give an example of common techniques:

1. Compliment.

This is a popular hint of sympathy, both at the first meeting and during long-term communication. You just need to remember that compliments should be appropriate. For example, if a lady is beautiful, you can definitely mention this: “You are like an orchid, more and more beautiful every day.” Or evaluate her hairstyle: “Your hairstyle is cool, did you do it yourself?”

1. Tell the truth.

Some guys who don't like to beat around the bush prefer to say everything directly, you can use this method too. Come up and say: “You know, I’ve liked you for a long time” or “I choose you, and why I’ll decide later”, “I can’t be silent anymore, I like you!”

1. Intrigue.

Females are very curious by nature; they do not like understatement, although they themselves use this method more often than men. You can act according to their plan - create some intrigue, for example, say with a characteristic facial expression: “What are you doing to me?” or “Why me?” The effect will not take long to appear, believe me...

1. Making her stand out from the surrounding girls.

This option works well if you study at the same educational institution or work in the same office, full of other representatives of the fairer sex. You can do this: select beauties standing nearby and say: “It’s good that at least you’re nearby, otherwise there are only scary people around” (point to the girls).

1. Good joke.

If a lady loves and knows how to joke, then you need to laugh at her jokes more often, so she will appreciate your attention and sympathy. But you shouldn’t remain in debt - you can joke and hint to the girl about the relationship: “Does your mother need a son-in-law?”, “Our children will not forgive us for this,” etc.

1. Find a common activity.

If you have common interests and hobbies, you can take advantage of this. For example, go to a concert of your favorite band and continue to show signs of attention there. The euphoria from listening to your favorite performers will enhance the effect of your rapprochement and sympathy for each other.

1. Show interest.

As mentioned earlier, all ladies love the attention of the opposite sex, even if you are still on friendly terms. You need to purposefully invite her to meetings, go to her (if this is practiced), and refuse to meet with other friends in front of her (for example, by phone). She'll appreciate that it's all for her. Remember the film “Sex for Friendship”, on the screen for the couple it all started with a banal friendship, but grew into deeper feelings.

How to write to a girl that I like her

If all of the above methods do not suit you or you are not confident, you need to try hinting about sympathy on social media. networks, for example: in contact or classmates. The chat is equipped with all kinds of emoticons, gifs and pictures that can be used in the message. Examples of messages:

“Hello my princess! Can I call you that?”

“How is the most beautiful and sweetest girl doing?”

“Even your handwriting is beautiful.”

“I’m writing to you, what more can I say, let me at least invite you on a date.”

“Oh (name), you make me blush even here.”

You can write it on paper and pass it on through a friend or acquaintance, especially if you are close to each other. The lady will certainly appreciate such an unusual way of communication and will understand that you like her and, perhaps, will reciprocate your sympathy.

I had no problems telling a girl that I liked her because I always followed the rules that are outlined in this article. Write your reviews and wishes in the comments, I will definitely answer, always yours, the old womanizer Panteley. Good luck to you!

Despite the fact that modern girls are quite independent and capable of making decisions, in matters of love they always expect initiative from the stronger sex. But confessing love is not as easy as it seems at first glance, especially for an ordinary guy who was taught from childhood to be strong, not to show his feelings, not to be too emotional.

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Determine the stage of your relationship

Before you make a confession, you need to understand what form your relationship is in now. Be honest with yourself - if you have never hinted about your sympathy, or worse, if the girl does not even know about your existence, it is too early to tell her words of love. First you need to make an acquaintance, at first a friendly one, and then gradually get to know the object of your desire.

If you are already considered friends, this is a big plus. As a friend, it will not be difficult for you to find out what a girl likes most, what moments she considers romantic, what dreams she has, even what her image of an ideal man is. And the information received will be useful for building an appropriate line of behavior.

Think over your “conquest” tactics

Any girl needs to be conquered, conquered, achieved. This model of relationships is embedded in our genetic memory. This means that you need a strategy, a well-thought-out line of behavior, depending on the preferences of the chosen one. A strategy that will lead to reciprocity. Below are some examples of successful confessions.

Option one. You have been friends for a long time and finally found out that your beloved loves nature and hiking, but does not like surprises. Yes, there are such girls! Then you should plan the day in advance: choose a place for a walk, guess the weather, pack a basket with a set for a romantic picnic.

The girl needs to be included in all the plans, leaving only the confession itself and a small symbolic souvenir as a surprise. During the walk, be attentive, listen to her wishes, give compliments, maintain a conversation (it is important not to overdo it with compliments, so as not to create the impression of falsehood). For relaxation, organize a romantic lunch in nature and during it talk about your feelings.

It is important to think through the route so that during the walk you do not have time to get too tired, so that it is enjoyable for both of you.

Option two. You just met her, showed sympathy, started a conversation. Great, keep up the good work! Your goal at the first stage is to prove yourself to be a real man, ready to help, listen, and support. But don't overdo it with your willingness to help - if you step over the fine line, the girl may begin to perceive you as a "girlfriend."

After you show your best sides and feel reciprocity from your beloved, you can begin to take active action. Further tactics are similar to option one: find out preferences and act in accordance with them.

Option three. You are dating, which means you are sure that the feelings are mutual. And yet you still feel the excitement of wanting to talk about them.

The main thing is to remember: never confess your love if you are not sure of your feelings - not a single woman will forgive deception.

Moment of recognition

So, you have come to the most important thing - the moment of recognition. The atmosphere is right, you are alone, everything is going according to plan, but suddenly... you are overcome by excitement. What to do in such a situation? First, relax. Exhale. Remember that you are a man and you were taught to be strong.

Secondly, gather your will into your fist and your thoughts into your head. Nothing ruins the moment like muttering incoherently under your breath about how in love you are. Don’t be nervous, but calmly and gently say the three cherished words “I love you.” A confession is a statement, and under no circumstances should a girl detect interrogative, let alone pleading, notes in it.

Thirdly, do not forget about tactile contact. During confession, you can take your chosen one by the hand, touch her forearm, or even kiss her.

End your recognition with a nice gift. It doesn't have to be expensive, it is much more important that it symbolizes your attitude towards the girl.

I want to make an impression, I can’t wait

Some men prefer not to wait, but to get to the point right away and impress their beloved with their originality. If you are so in love that you cannot make friends, this option is also suitable.

Below are the most interesting methods that can surprise any woman.

Heart made of rose petals

A relatively inexpensive and at the same time impressive way to confess your love. The petals can be laid out outdoors, but given our changeable weather, it is better to prepare the “picture” indoors.

Heart flash mob

If your friends are ready to help, you can organize a flash mob for the girl under the window, for example, line up in the shape of a heart or giant letters “I love”. There can be a great variety of flash mob options, the main thing is to apply the right amount of imagination.

Unusual graffiti

Confessions written in chalk on a wall or asphalt have long lost popularity. But high-quality graffiti can still attract attention. If you do not have the talent of an artist, invite professionals who will help you transform any idea into a real work of art.

Riddle surprise

If you are sure that a girl likes to solve riddles and you know her daily routine, you can arrange an unusual quest. Determine the place where you will wait for her, develop a route and leave hints.

For example, a girl comes home, and a note is waiting for her on the door, prompting her next action (“look in the mailbox,” “go to the nearest cafe,” etc.). You can add nice little things to the hints to stimulate further searches. The main thing is not to make the chain of hints too long so that you don’t get tired of it. The last note should bring the lady of your heart straight into your arms.

Recognition in an amazing place

Surely, in your city you know several unusual and at the same time cozy places that are ideal for revealing your feelings. These could be remote areas of parks, rooftops, fields or picturesque hills.

You can find a company that organizes hot air balloon flights and confess your love right in the sky. But before organizing such an event, it is better to make sure that neither you nor your chosen one gets sick in the air. Forethought will help avoid unnecessary embarrassment.

In the epistolary genre

Confession in the form of a letter is suitable for those who cannot contain their excitement and express their feelings in person. Meanwhile, girls perceive sincere letters as a manifestation of hidden sensuality.

Never ask another person to write a love note for you - sooner or later the girl will realize that you are not the author, and this will give you a bad reputation.

Officially

A business girl will definitely appreciate official recognition. There are many similar templates on the Internet, you just need to choose the most suitable one, download it, print it and enter your names.

Giant poster

Creating a poster will not take much time and effort. All you need to do is buy whatman paper, paints and draw a bright confession. Then figure out your loved one’s route, for example, to work, figure out the time and go out in front of her with a poster. At a minimum, you will cause pleasant surprise and the lady's affection.

Creatively

A fashion trend is creating portraits using colored glitter and glue. If you have a pronounced talent for drawing, you should use it.

There are many videos on the Internet in which a guy draws strange outlines with glue on a special tablet, and then throws a tray of glitter onto it, and the portrait of his beloved appears as if by magic.

The beauty of such a confession is its surprise: the girl does not know until the last moment what she will see as a result.

These are not all the ways to tell a girl that you love her. If you use your imagination, you can come up with many more unexpected approaches to revealing your feelings.

Agency services for organizing holidays: are they necessary?

At some point, you may have the idea of ​​contacting a holiday agency with a request to organize a romantic setting for recognition. Is it worth doing? Controversial issue. On the one hand, this is a guarantee that all the nuances will be provided for. On the other hand, if you make your own efforts, the girl will be much more pleased, and she will turn a blind eye to minor shortcomings on your part. Accordingly, the chances of reciprocity will increase.

So what actions will you take that will almost certainly lead to failure?

Recognition at odd times. For example, a girl is overloaded with work, she has a hundred things planned for the day, and then you invite her to solve a confession quest in the evening. Failure is guaranteed almost 100%.

Confession under the influence of alcohol. It’s a great temptation to take a sip before being alone with your chosen one for good spirits and self-confidence. But there is absolutely no need to do this, because the girl may not take seriously the information about how you feel about her.

Excessive bombast, prepared text. No, of course you can rehearse. But try to avoid template phrases and prepared speech patterns. Excessive pretentiousness only kills sincerity, so when talking about your feelings, be yourself.

Publicity. If you open your soul to a girl while in a crowd of people, she may get scared and reflexively refuse reciprocity, even if she herself feels affection for you. In addition to rejection, you may publicly earn a reputation as a failure.

How to react to a refusal?

What to do if you did everything right, but the feelings are not mutual? Firstly, don’t get angry about this and don’t tell the girl everything that’s boiling over. Be a man, restrain yourself. Even if the girl does not show reciprocal feelings, understand: you have removed a big burden from your shoulders, now you do not need to suffer from uncertainty.

Secondly, do not demand an immediate answer and do not pressure the girl if she takes time to think. Thinking does not mean refusal; if she wanted to say “no”, she most likely would have done it without thinking.

Third, understand that love is not a conscious choice. You can win someone over, but it’s impossible to make him love you.

Fourth, show respect for your loved one's decision. If it is negative, it does not mean the end of the world. Yes, refusal is painful, offensive and lowers self-esteem, but life does not end after the first “no”. And after the tenth too.

How to live after refusal?

Most importantly, do not engage in self-flagellation, but try to react calmly to everything and gain useful experience even from refusal. Praise yourself for trying, because you had the courage to take the first step, while many guys only dream about it. You overcame fear and gained experience, albeit unpleasant.

Some time after the refusal, with a cool head, analyze what you could have done wrong. If you don’t see any real reasons for refusal, accept it. The girl simply does not perceive you as a potential gentleman.

After a refusal, you can choose one of two paths: try to win the favor of your loved one or survive it. The choice should be made according to your feelings: if you feel that there is sympathy on her part or can awaken, go for it! If there is no such feeling, draw conclusions and move on with your life.

What if she agrees?

There are many articles on the Internet on the topic of how to properly respond to a girl’s refusal, how to control yourself, and so on. But almost no one mentions how to respond to consent. But this is important for the continuation of the relationship.

When you confess your love to a girl, and she tells you about mutual feelings, it is best to kiss her, gently and carefully. Don’t skimp on your emotions, tell how happy you are, make the girl happy. Strengthen your relationship with a symbolic gift. It could be a pendant in the shape of a heart, a keychain for two (one half for her, the other for you), a flower or other pleasant trifle. And don't forget to schedule your next date! Good luck to you!

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Every language in the world has the phrase “I love you.” And if a man decides to say it, then he has serious feelings for the girl, because for the stronger sex such an act is a step that means a voluntary renunciation of male freedom. However, this also means that his intentions are clear and transparent - he wants to spend the rest of his life with a woman, build a family. And family has always been a sacred concept.

Since men are more emotionally withdrawn, saying “I love you” can be difficult for them. Psychologists say that the reasons should be sought in childhood, because parents are trying to raise their son to be a strong and independent person, and sensitivity on their part can be regarded as weakness. As a result, the guy cannot take a step and confess his feelings to the girl.

How to get rid of fear

Fear is a natural feeling when talking about love. However, if a guy loves deeply, then there is a need to overcome this fear. What you need to know in this case:

1. Realizing that fear exists is the first step towards combating it.
2. It is worth thinking that by removing a heavy burden from yourself, life will be easier, because the rest is a matter of chance.
3. By saying “I love”, we admit not weakness, but strength, because recognition requires courage.
4. If a girl is characterized by sympathy and attention, she can also be suspected of reciprocal feelings, which means that the issue of recognition becomes a formality.
5. If a girl leaves a guy for a friend or leaves him, it will be difficult for him to open his heart to someone a second time, but you should understand that not all people are the same, and the need for happiness should be stronger than the fear of rejection.

How to say “no” without hearing it

There are several tips for when a happy life together will be real, not in a dream, but in reality. To do this:

• You need to talk about your feelings only in a one-on-one setting. No letters or calls! The girl will be pleased with the attention, she will appreciate the courage of the act. By saying “I love” in person, a person expresses the importance of his other half;
• It’s better to express thoughts in your own words; she won’t be amazed by memorized phrases spoken uncertainly, without passion. The main thing here is calm;
• The situation plays an important role: it is necessary to select a moment when the girl is comfortable, calm, when she is not preoccupied with problems. She will feel much better in an ordinary room than in a cafe with a sea of ​​noise and din;
• Nobody canceled romance - she will be amazed by flowers, candles, poems, something created with her own hands.

How to say “I love” to someone who is leaving

There are sadder scenarios, for example, if a couple is on the verge of breaking up or people have not started dating at all. Saying “I love you” in such a situation is much more difficult, but it is precisely such words that can radically change the situation.

Perhaps the girl wants to say “goodbye” precisely because she is not sure of the guy’s feelings. Then there is no need to come up with excuses. The main criterion in such a situation is whether the feelings are strong, does the guy see her as his girlfriend? If you have feelings, you need to admit them. Psychologists say that liberation from an emotional burden, even in case of refusal, has a good effect on the human psyche. At least the answer will be known, and the wait will stop killing.

Sometimes it’s hard to muster up the courage and tell a girl how you feel about her, so in this article we’ll look at how to hint to a girl that I like her in person or by correspondence in VKontakte, and whether it’s worth using a social network when trying to tell her about your emotions.

Like any person, it is natural for us to be nervous and afraid to admit our feelings, but the fear of being rejected may prevent you from building a happy relationship. Therefore, you need to gather all your will into a fist and confess to the girl that you like him; perhaps she is also afraid to confess her feelings to you. So, the most necessary thing in the first stages is to get to know the girl better, understand what she likes and what she wants. And only then look for an approach to it. Don’t forget that all girls are different - one likes to be told about their feelings directly, while another may be completely frightened by this.

Whatever one may say, guys often spend a long time planning and thinking about how to let a girl know that you like her, what to say to her, where to say it, and when to say it. If you have feelings for a girl and you are crazy about her appearance, then a few phrases from which she will understand what attracts you to her can help you, for example:

• “Your eyes are so beautiful, I just can’t tear myself away!”;
• “The hair shines so cool in the sun, it’s so soft”;
• “It’s immediately obvious that you play sports, you have a beautiful figure.”

If you decide to focus on a girl’s appearance, you should not tell her, for example, about her chubby cheeks, she may begin to feel complex and be upset because of this, or compliments about her buttocks and breasts may also disappoint her, and she will consider you vulgar , a cheeky guy.

Are you making plans for the future and thinking about how to let a girl know that you like her using joint planning methods? Then you should understand one simple truth - your sincerity with a girl you barely know will be regarded as a joke, but if you have already talked for a long time and are already thinking about how you will celebrate sunrises and sunsets together, then these phrases will help you:

• “You know, next year I want to give you an unforgettable Valentine’s Day”;
• “Maybe, of course, I’m rushing things, but a joint vacation at sea during the summer holidays will give us the opportunity to relax and prepare for the new school year. How do you like my offer?"

A compliment is the simplest and most profitable step on the way to a girl’s heart, so you can come up with a huge variety of them, and the girl will always be pleased. The main thing is not to overdo it and not turn a compliment into everyday flattery.

If you want to conquer your beloved, you should learn how to give compliments correctly. You shouldn’t memorize them, and in order to impress a girl, don’t say obvious things, for example: “There is no one more beautiful than you in the world,” this is quite boring and everyone is already tired of it. Get creative with complements:

• “Having traveled half the world, I have never met such a treasure in the world as you”;
• “Before our meeting, I was thinking about what to say to you, but when I saw your charming smile, I forgot all the words.”

Most importantly, remember to be sincere. If she realizes that you truly admire her, she will appreciate your persistence. And if you try to memorize the text, she will immediately understand it and get angry. You should not repeat compliments very often, let them become unexpected.

If you suddenly go too far and your girlfriend gets upset, ask her for forgiveness and that you didn’t mean to offend her.

There is no need for long sentences, speak briefly, clearly and your intonation should not let you down.

If you still can’t overcome yourself or are not a male who can constantly flirt and compliment girls, but are a serious, straightforward guy, it doesn’t matter. This is even good, since the option suits you is to immediately speak the truth about what you really want from a girl.

For example, let these be simple, uncomplicated phrases:

• “You are very beautiful, smart and I have really liked you for a long time!”;
• “I’ll be honest, I’m crazy about you!”

Tell the girl about what attracted you to her, what made her stand out among others. And then she will feel superior to other females, which will greatly flatter her.

Tell everything honestly, don’t try to make things up, because if you start hanging around before the next compliment, it will seem very strange.

Let's imagine that you already know this girl, you study, for example, in the same group or class, you work together, or you are on different courses, and then you met your eyes, and you realized that this is exactly the girl with whom you would like to spend Always have your time. Then you shouldn’t delay, it’s time to confess your feelings to her, but you shouldn’t do this in a crowd. Let you be left alone. So that you feel more confident, and she does not feel embarrassed, and also so that her answer is sincere, since in the crowd of surrounding eyes she may not even speak out, so as not to offend you or, on the contrary, accidentally humiliate you.

And if suddenly your privacy has taken place, be brave, tell her that you like spending time with her, communicating, and you want to move to the next level by inviting her on a first date.

In fact, the easiest way to ask a girl on a date is to then tell her after a certain period of time that you love her. Thoughts immediately begin to come to mind, what if she doesn’t reciprocate? Is this really love? What should I do if she also says that she loves me? You need to be prepared for both a positive answer and a negative one. And for this you need to prepare.

Preparation.

Practice your speech. Decide what you will say after saying “I love you.” The girl will definitely want to hear some kind of continuation.

A declaration of love should be memorable, therefore, to get a better chance of not being rejected, choose a meeting place, and also agree with the girl on the time and date in advance.

Even if, after admitting your feelings, you do not hear an answer, do not start asking questions: “Do you love me?”, “Do you want to tell me something?” The girl may not feel love for you, or she might simply be confused and embarrassed. Therefore, before the meeting begins, be patient and resilient.

Confession.

When you see your chosen one, you don’t need to immediately rush out with words of declaration of love. Take a walk, enjoy each other, wait for the right romantic moment, and only then tell her: “I love you.”

Don't rush the girl, she needs to realize what she heard.

It is important to remember a few tips:

• Try not to get nervous and pretend to be someone you are not;
• Before you confess your feelings to her, think carefully about whether you really love her;
• There is no shame in practicing, so you rehearse your speech;
• When you meet, give the girl all your attention, look after her;
• Having confessed your love, do not press her, she will open up to you when she is ready.

You are a cheerful and sympathetic guy, so this can be your ace in the hole. Try to demonstrate your sympathy for her using positive notes, for example, phrases like:

1. “And I would marry you!”;
2. “I envy your cat’s life, maybe you’ll take me in his place?”

If suddenly a girl also decides to make a joke, and even if it didn’t work out very well for her, don’t criticize her, support her and laugh together.

Now we will try to let the girl know that we liked her, but at the same time you saw her for the first time. Here you will have to work hard, the most important thing is to try to bring her into dialogue, because if she is not interested in you, then she will flatly refuse to talk to you, and you simply will not be able to express your feelings.

What do we need to do?

• Try the simplest thing, ask her the time or how to get to a certain place;
• After answering, you can compliment her, and if you get a smile on her face, you can continue the conversation further;
• Ask if she would like to spend time with you or chat on the phone or online;
• A girl interested in you may herself hint to you that she would not mind spending time with you to get to know you in detail;
• If, after compliments, you saw how her face became embarrassed, or she tried to look away and turn away from you, then you should not waste your time on her.

Now let's deal with the hints. They will depend on the type of your beloved, since we would not recommend using vulgar hints for a modest and intelligent lady, she will simply not understand you correctly, but will also be disgusted by you.

Let's look at examples. Let the first one be “uninhibited”; with this type of woman you can joke about sex topics and other 18+ topics, and also talk directly about your sympathy, about a beautiful, sexy body, etc.

There is also the “quiet, modest one”; with them you need to choose your hints carefully, since such girls usually hide any emotions within themselves.

In order to understand what type your girl is, let her open up in general, look at how she dresses and behaves with other people, and only then choose an approach for recognition.

We believe that the Internet is not the best place for declarations of love, of course, more on this below, but if it comes to hints on the Internet, then let's figure out how to hint to a girl that I like her by correspondence, using the simplest methods.

The simplest and most effective way is to write to her in plain text that you care about her. On the plus side, she can immediately reciprocate your feelings or not, but on the minus side, the girl can simply ignore the message without answering you, since she may receive dozens of exactly the same confessions.

Alternatively, you can send her musical compositions that, to one degree or another, hint at your feelings for the girl. You shouldn’t stop at music; you can also give her videos or simple pictures. An interested girl will reciprocate your feelings, and then you can offer her something more serious than just hints.

Now we hope that you have no more questions about how to hint to a girl that I like her on VK, since the methods we described above are 100% effective and here either you will receive a refusal, or a continuation where you can already invite her on a live date.

If you have not seen a girl before, but are in the mood for a declaration of love or sympathy, then we do not advise you to do this through social networks or other remote methods.

Here are a few reasons why we think the Internet is a bad place to confess your feelings:

• Your lover can read the message and immediately leave the network without telling you anything, simply ignoring your confession;
• On social networks, beautiful girls are often declared in love and several times a day. If you want to be in the company of men who have not been answered, then go for it;
• You will not be able to convey all sincerity and show how important this is to you through messages on VK or SMS; it is best to do this face to face when you meet;
• Another girl may think that you are trying to prank her or want to make fun of her, so she will simply leave this message without an answer, or send you an emoticon.

Recently we were chatting with friends, and the topic came up about how to let a girl know that you like her. I don’t know who thinks and how, but you can invite her somewhere just for a walk. Surely she will understand that those girls who the guy does not like will not be invited for a walk. But there is a flip side to the coin - she can resist.

Dear guys! Never hint to girls that you like them on VK. It immediately seems that you are afraid to say this face to face. And if this is so, then why is such communication necessary at all? And how many times do girls not respond to such messages, only because they themselves do not understand anything.

I think some kind of non-standard approach is needed. Surely, if a girl is beautiful, then many people hint to her that they like her, so immunity can develop over time. If a man wants to show, then he needs to show it with all tenacity, and not hint or state a fact.

Girls almost never take the first step, only the brave ones can. They are afraid of being rejected. Therefore, a man will have to take everything into his own hands. If he sees that he likes her, then why not take the plunge? What's the use of empty hints, they can't be given or taken.

Hinting to a girl about sympathy is a difficult matter. Especially if she is very modest. Now I don’t know how or what to tell her. I'm afraid to go too far and offend. I read the article, but there are quite a few methods that I will use. And I certainly won’t write to her about it.

I was thinking about how I could hint to her that I like her. The girl was ahead of the curve, she said everything herself, that is, she wrote on VK. You know what? I don’t want anyone to confess their sympathy to me like that anymore. It’s not very pleasant, and I won’t do it myself. It’s better to hint somehow with your eyes, smile, fool around together.

I once saw a girl on the subway and really liked her. I didn't know how to talk to her. I followed her, fortunately she didn’t think that I was some kind of maniac. He ran up, asked what time it was, and said that he had forgotten his phone at home. We talked and decided to exchange numbers. He took out his phone and started recording. It was awkward...

I recently asked a girl if she wanted to continue talking in a cafe. She said categorically “no.” This is the twist. That’s why now I’m first trying to find out if the girl likes me even a little bit, otherwise you’ll learn all the ways and be left a fool.

And I just said it directly, without hints. Why make unnecessary gestures when you can say everything in person. I don’t regret it, there’s no need to be afraid under any circumstances. Then you will only regret it. Therefore, gather courage, a year’s supply of compliments, and go into battle!

Damn, I like a girl and I rarely see her and every time I wish that I didn’t confess and today I gained strength and I’ll give it to you and I advise you not to take the first step otherwise you will wish that you didn’t confess