Erogenous zones are areas of the skin or mucous membrane, when exposed to which sexual arousal and increased erection occur, if we are talking about men.

The main rule of an ideal lover is to give a man what he needs. However, men are often reluctant to share with us secret knowledge about the intricacies of their sexual nature, so you will have to act empirically, checking how your partner reacts to caresses of certain parts of the body. If you are patient, sensitive and attentive enough, over time it will seem to a man that you are reading his thoughts.

Let's move on to practice.

Lips and tongue

Often lovemaking begins with kissing. There are a huge number of nerve endings on the lips and tongue that detect the slightest impact.

Lips are much more sensitive than fingertips and even facial skin, which is considered quite delicate. The reason is a particularly thin cell layer. There are 16 such layers on the face, and 3-5 on the lips.

Humanity has come up with hundreds of types of kisses: from weightless brief hints of touching to passionate French kisses, when tongue movements and even biting are used.

Some movements even have their own names, for example, “mill” - inserting the tongue of one partner into the other’s mouth and rotating the tongue in the partner’s mouth; “exquisite kiss” - inserting the tongue into the partner’s mouth and sliding along his palate; “royal kiss” - sliding the tongue over the teeth and inserting it behind the partner’s cheek; “stinging kiss” - sucking the partner’s lip with a sharp and short insertion of the tongue into the partner’s mouth.

Do not overdo it with the force of impact on this erogenous zone; not everyone likes hickey marks, although there are men who proudly display them as proof of their perfection as a lover.

Neck and back of the head

The back of the head and the back of the neck are the strongest erogenous zone for many men. Perhaps a positive response to affection in this area begins in childhood, when the boy’s head was stroked by his mother.

Besides, the head is too important a part of the body. Allowing her to hug her means to some extent depriving her of visibility and control over what is happening. This can only be done either by a very close person, or if you want to get a dose of adrenaline.

Both scenarios can lead to arousal in different types of men. So pay attention to your partner’s neck and head - stroke it, cup it with your palms, kiss it, or you can also lightly scratch it with your nails.

Hands

Palm massage seems simple and not worthy of attention if we are talking about male erogenous zones. But there is one secret place in the palm - between the tubercles under the middle and ring fingers. This is a projection of the groin area on the palm. Innocent stroking and kneading of this area can cause a quite noticeable erection in a man.

The second erogenous zone in the palm is the area of ​​skin between the bases of the index and middle fingers on the back side. If you use your hand to depict a walking man, then the index and middle fingers will become the legs, and the place between them, accordingly, will become the groin area. This way, hand massage can turn into sensual play.

As for the hands themselves, try caressing the elbows and armpits. Watch the reaction carefully, there is a risk that your man will become ticklish.

Breast

Playing with curls on the chest can be a warm-up before more daring caresses. As for nipples, everything is individual. For some men, touching them brings incredible pleasure. With these, use your entire arsenal of touches.

But we must remember that, unlike women, nipples are not such a powerful erogenous zone for men, and sometimes caresses even cause discomfort.

If your chosen one is one of these, look for another place to apply your passion. For example, try elements of body-body massage - stroke his naked chest with your wide movements.

Stomach

For men, caressing the belly is a signal that the woman is about to begin the most important thing. In addition to the caresses that come to mind with your palms, chest and stomach, try a spiral massage with the top of your head.

To do this, you need to put the man on his back, straddle him on top, bow his head strongly, place the top of his head on the man’s navel and make circular movements with his head, gradually expanding the circles. We assure you that he has never experienced such sensations before.

Legs

Many men admit that foot massage is very exciting for them. It is not for nothing that in eastern countries there is such a tradition as washing the feet of your spouse with water.

Also, do not ignore the area on the back of the knee; it is extremely susceptible to tenderness. Since each man has his own sensitivity threshold, some may find such procedures very ticklish.

Back

Yes, yes, including the back. Often this area is left without due attention, and yet there are several erogenous zones on the back, such as the sacral area and the interscapular space. Massage movements are best done from top to bottom.

Your chosen one will be pleasantly surprised if you diversify the stroking with your hands, for example, by touching your chest or running the ends of your hair along your back, or maybe with a gentle feather or sharp claws, and perhaps even crush her with your feet. Fantasize, be unpredictable and you will never be able to bore your partner!

The most important

We deliberately left out the caresses of the penis, perineum and anus. Women usually have some awareness of what to do with these male erogenous zones to create arousal. But you don’t just want sex, but one that will be memorable and unusual for your man.

Secret trick of Thai masseuses

Often men who lived with a local girlfriend in Thailand return and feel that there is something missing when making love with any other woman. It turns out that Thai women place a so-called anchor on a man’s body. If this anchor is not activated during sex, the man thinks that caresses are not complete and pleasant enough. This is how Thai women protect themselves from betrayal.

How to install this anchor? You need to choose two unusual parts of your chosen one’s body. You will pay attention to one zone just before the start of sex, and caress the other after the end of coitus. This must be done for seven sexual acts in a row, so the anchor will be fixed. In the future, it is advisable to keep the anchor up to date.

The areas should be those that are rarely touched in everyday life. If you rub your partner on the shoulder at the beginning of each act, then any friendly pat in the office can lead to unnecessary stimulation.

But if you choose the right secret place, which means “darling, there will be sex soon,” then you can excite your partner in the future by caressing this area. Likewise, instead of the annoying “I have a headache,” you can caress the final zone, and your partner’s romantic intentions will subside on their own.

Erogenous zones are areas of the skin and mucous membranes, irritation of which at the right moment leads to increasing sexual arousal. You should pay attention to the expression “at the right moment,” because irritation of the erogenous zone does not lead to a corresponding reaction at any time and not in any sequence.

Erogenous zones include the skin of the head, eyelids, lips, tongue, oral mucosa, auricle, the area behind the auricle, earlobe, back of the head, hair, side of the neck; the front, surface of the neck or throat to the upper edge of the sternum; palm, soft fingertips; mammary glands and nipples; skin of the lower third of the abdomen; navel; “cat spot” (the area of ​​the spine between the shoulder blades), lower back; buttocks; anus area; inner thighs; back of the thighs; heels and soles; crotch; clitoral area; labia minora, vestibule of the vagina; anterior vaginal wall (lower half); cervix.

Each woman, naturally, has her own erogenous zones. Finding them is the task of both husband and wife. Sex therapist I. Bloch wrote that touching the skin of a loved one is already half of sexual intercourse. These touches give voluptuous sensations that are transmitted to the genitals.

Women's sense of touch is subtler and stronger, and is more closely connected with sexuality. Many women, when talking with men, have the habit of touching their chest, arm, and if they are sitting, then their leg. They touch with pencils and fingers, but only to the man they like.

There is also the eroticism of muscles. Friction, massage with hands and feet were widely used in ancient India, among the Greeks and Romans. In order to evoke sexual arousal and voluptuous sensations, massage in underwater baths is still very common in the East, performed mainly by beautiful boys or girls.

Mouth

The mouth certainly belongs to the erogenous zones. However, only 20% of women experienced sharp arousal when kissing on the lips (according to some sexological studies). For many women, kissing is simply pleasant. It is believed that the kiss originated from primitive affection - kissing one's child and sucking on the mother's breast. However, there is a theory that kissing occurs when searching for new taste sensations. After all, the ancient Romans, for example, were good at determining the taste of the kisses of their lovers.

Sometimes bites that do not cause pain are also classified as kisses. Their favorite place in men is considered to be the left shoulder and collarbone, and in women - the neck and sides.

The tongue kiss is sung by many poets of both ancient and modern times. This includes a gentle French kiss, in which the tongue only lightly touches the partner’s lips, and a rough Indian samyana - rotating the tongue in the other’s mouth, and German tongue-to-tongue contact. It is also called deep, hot. The Indian Kama Sutra by Vatsayana and the Science of Love by Ovid Nason describe various types of kisses.

Nose and smell

It is a common belief that men and women with large noses are the “most passionate.” However, according to sexological research, the nose is by no means an erogenous zone. At the same time, sexologists know about the close reflex connection between the nasal turbinates and the female genital organs. The first reports that irritations emanating from the genital area can lead to nasal diseases appeared back in 1885.

In terms of sexuality, the situation is better with the sense of smell, which for some women is a pronounced erogenous zone. I. P. Pavlov wrote: “And I think that, perhaps, the most important causative agent of the sexual reflex is a special odor stimulus.”

Hippocrates also noted that every man and every woman has their own individual smell. He believed that a person's smell can change with age. The smell affects men more than women. Some sexologists claim that the vaginal glands of women emit a specific “feminine” odor. This odor may become stronger during menstruation. It has an extremely stimulating effect on many men.

Men are often aroused by the scent of the woman they love (the smell of hair, the smell of armpits and head, especially the back of the head). Many women have a favorite perfume that turns them on. The most stimulating scents include mignonette, heliotrope, jasmine, patchouli, violet, rose and musk. Some women are greatly aroused by the flower of the home chestnut tree, the smell of which is similar to the smell of male semen. There is a belief that the smell of cloves is one of the most stimulating smells for men. Moritz Dukes writes that Richelieu in his old age lived among the smells of the strongest perfumes to stimulate sexual activity. In the East, it is not the labial, much less the lingual, that is common, but the olfactory kiss, when the nose of one subject comes into contact either with the nose, or with the cheek or hand of another.

Modern sexology notes in many cases the negative role of the smell of vodka and tobacco. The widespread use of alcohol is increasingly the cause of unhappy marriages and leads to divorce. The smell of wine fumes for most women not only discourages kissing, but often completely kills love.

Eyelids

The eyelids themselves are a vaguely defined erogenous zone. In addition to kissing with lips on the eyes, the so-called “butterfly kiss” and “moth kiss” are also known - bilateral touching with eyelashes. At all times, women decorated and emphasized their eyelids with cosmetics.

Vision

No matter how great the importance of hearing in a woman’s sexual life, the auditory sense, in general, manifests its effect after a positive or negative attitude towards a partner is more or less visually determined. It is not without reason that two great thinkers - the philosopher Plato and the natural scientist Charles Darwin - agreed that “beauty is the embodiment of love.” Beauty always evokes positive emotions.

However, sexologists note a very ambiguous attitude of women towards the sight of naked men. A large percentage of women are indifferent to the sight of their naked husbands, only for some it causes strong arousal.

Ear and hearing

Since ancient times, the auricle has been considered one of the strongest erogenous zones. In memory of this, women decorated and decorate their ears with earrings and clips. Kissing and sucking on the earlobes or the back of the ear can in some cases cause strong sexual arousal in women. This zone is especially widely used in Eastern countries. In India, there is “davan-banja” - coitus in the auricle.

One of the intimate caresses is whispering in the ear. A woman can be aroused by the kind words she hears during foreplay and coitus itself. A woman really loves with her ears. It is known that some women can be aroused by this or that music. The powerful influence of singing and music on emotions has been known since ancient times. Music can excite, but it can also calm.

Abroad, studies have long been carried out on the influence of music on sex. Researchers have come to the conclusion that of all musical works, the operas of R. Wagner ("Tristan and Isolde", "The Ring of the Nibelung", "Tannhäuser") and the operettas of R. Offenbach are especially stimulating. In general, Wagner is sometimes called an erotic genius. Contemporary dance music also falls into the stimulating category. The exciting sexual effect of the latter is further enhanced by appropriate body movements.

Neck

The neck is a fairly pronounced erogenous zone. The history of women's neck jewelry is connected with this. Different areas of a woman’s neck have unequal degrees of erogenity. Some people find it more pleasant to kiss the front of the neck, while others find it more pleasant to kiss the back, at the border of the scalp.

"Cat Place"

The “cat spot” (the place on the back between the shoulder blades) is a pronounced erogenous zone in those women who know about its existence. It is called so because males of all types of cats (cats, lynxes, lions, tigers) during sexual intercourse firmly hold the female with their teeth at this place.

Mammary glands

Just like the mouth, the mammary glands are irritated more often than other areas. It should be noted that the mammary glands are powerful erogenous zones not only for women. Even manual contact with them has an exciting effect on men. There is even intercourse between the breasts. In the Kama Sutra and Anam-garanda, this type of coitus - narvasadata - is even recommended for sexual intercourse in cases where lovers want to avoid pregnancy, believing that during ejaculation a mature seed will flow out, and during the next acts it will flow immature, incapable of fertilization. With this method, not only a man can bring himself to orgasm, but also a woman.

During sexual intercourse, many women experience engorgement of the mammary glands, sometimes quite significant, and the clarity of the venous pattern increases. In women, nipples and areolas around them are one of the most powerful erogenous zones.

Irritation of the nipples is achieved in various ways: with the hands (kneading, pulling), with the mouth (sucking, licking) and, finally, by touching the penis. Owners of nipple orgasm claim that with the latter method it is achieved much easier than with others. Female nipples are extremely sensitive to any sexual stimulation and immediately become erect.

Toes and heels

The tips of the toes are among the most important erogenous zones of a woman. Touching and caressing the toes in some women causes a sharp arousal, but in most cases it is simply pleasant. The culture of a beautiful heel is now being lost; women have begun to take less care of their feet. And in Pushkin’s times, a beautiful heel attracted special attention.

Lower back, sacrum, buttocks

Almost all erogenous zones of a woman evoke positive emotions, mainly during caresses and kisses, but the buttocks are an exception. Here, pleasant sensations and even excitement are caused not by caress, but by the use of force (sharp squeezing of the buttocks with a man’s hand) and even the infliction of pain. This feature is noted both in domestic and foreign medical literature. The lower back and sacrum are also erogenous zones.

Clitoris

The erogenous role of the clitoris is widely known. In Russian it is called “pokhotnik”. In approximately 80% of women, according to various sex therapists, the clitoris is a pronounced erogenous zone. It is irritated in various ways: with hands and mouth during foreplay and petting, with the male penis during sexual intercourse. Some husbands use irritation of the clitoris with the mouth as an additional measure if the wife did not have time to achieve orgasm during intercourse.

Labia minora, vaginal opening

The most important part of the female reproductive system. Since the cavernous bodies are also located at the entrance to the vagina in the area of ​​the labia minora, this place is a powerful erogenous zone. Separately, it should be said about such an area as the anterior wall of the vagina, which is very sensitive in many women.

Cervix

Cervical irritation is very important to some; women. There is even a uterine (cervical) orgasm, which approximately 20% of women are able to experience. In some cases, the lack of pleasant sensations when touching the cervix is ​​explained by the woman’s uncomfortable position during intercourse, when the penis either passes by the cervix or does not reach it.

Anus (anus)

The area of ​​the perineum and anus has been considered a very strong erogenous zone since ancient times. Many modern sexologists share the same opinion. There are women who have rectal and perineal orgasm.

Widespread use of this erogenous zone is typical mainly for southern and eastern countries. Thus, in India, very often during sexual intercourse, the husband additionally irritates the anus with his finger or even inserts his finger into the rectum. It is known that on the island of Sifnos (one of the Cyclades islands) in ancient times, both men and women masturbated by inserting a finger into the anus

Zone "S»

Many sex therapists identify the “S” zone of the vagina as the erogenous zone. What is this mysterious zone? Where is it located?

Yes, such a zone exists. It is also called Grafenberg spot . Orgasm occurs as a result of stimulation of this; zones using deep thrusts of the penis during intercourse.

The diameter of this zone is approximately 2-2.5 cm. It is located on the upper wall of the vagina at approximately 2.5 cm of the vaginal opening, halfway between the posterior pubic bone and the anterior edge of the cervix, close to the urethra and just below the bladder. A woman can locate her Grafenberg spot with the help of her partner. To do this, she must, first, lie on her back, slightly raise and spread her knees. The partner inserts his index finger into her vagina, pad up, and uses it to feel the pubic bone, which is located directly behind the clitoris. By firmly but gently moving your finger towards the cervix, he will locate the Grafenberg spot on the upper wall of the vagina. A woman will understand that he has discovered it as soon as a man’s finger touches this spot. The first sensation she will experience is a strong urge to urinate, but then it will quickly be replaced by a feeling of pleasure, especially if her partner gently strokes this spot for a few seconds. As a result, it will begin to swell and become more noticeable. And then the woman will feel a vaginal orgasm, which is deeper than the clitoral one and which can be repeated using direct stimulation. During sexual intercourse, to achieve this type of orgasm, the face-to-face position is most preferable because it allows the penis to rub against the Grafenberg spot.

In connection with this zone, they often talk about female ejaculation. Is this possible?

Indeed, two famous American sexologists John D. Perry and Beverly Whipple in their article “Can a Woman Ejaculate? Yes!”, published in the Forum magazine, proclaimed that a woman is not only capable of having a vaginal orgasm, but can also ejaculate.

Perry and Whipple reported that one in ten women who experience orgasm when Grafenberg's spot is stimulated ejaculate fluid produced by Skene's glands, mucous glands located in the wall of the urethra. The moisture that the vagina releases immediately after orgasm is not urine, as some women think. In its chemical composition, it resembles male ejaculate.

However, despite all these sensational reports, the vast majority of sexologists are skeptical about female ejaculation.

What are accessory erogenous zones?

Many sex therapists identify, in addition to the main ones, additional erogenous zones. These include the elbow, subulnar and popliteal fossa. Additional erogenous zones include the crown of the head and the hair on the head. Pulling, twisting, and fingering hair excites both men and women. Pathological hair manipulation (tricotillapsy) has long been given a certain sexual meaning.

Is it possible for a woman’s usual erogenous zone to disappear or shift?

Permanent or temporary shutdown of one or another erogenous zone, as well as a significant decrease in its activity, is called ectopia of the erogenous zone. It can be single or multiple. Ectopia is especially common in hysterical women. The transfer of the erogenous zone, its occurrence in an unusual place on the surface of the woman’s body, is called heterotopia of the erogenous zone. Suggestion in a hypnotic state can affect the intensity of a particular erogenous zone, but for a relatively short period of time. Apparently, self-hypnosis and autogenic training can have a certain effect on erogenous zones.

It should be noted that the idea that caresses are only physical (mechanical) irritation of erogenous zones is incorrect. In reality, each caress is a psychophysiological phenomenon. It has its own psychological, personal content, sometimes expressed in symbolic form. The drawing of the weasel and its mechanisms reflect sociocultural, historical, ethnographic factors, as well as personal values, attitudes and characteristics of a person.

Do all women have erogenous zones?

There is no doubt that there is no place on the human body that could not act erogenously, and for some people even be the main zone of arousal. Therefore, in case of sexual coldness, you should persistently look for the location of such zones. Using these areas in the preparatory period can unexpectedly transform sexual coldness into intense excitement and passion.

Some people still believe that attraction to a partner alone is enough for good sex. But it’s not for nothing that the skill of lovers is equated to art! Gradual arousal due to stimulation of erogenous zones will give the woman longer-lasting and higher-quality pleasure.

Orgasm after sex with foreplay is more vivid and provides a deeper release than quick, impatient or monotonous copulation.

Start influencing your partner’s most sensitive points long before sexual intercourse. In this way, you will be able to know the boundaries of each other's sensations. This is very important for mutual understanding in bed, where we prefer to communicate without words.

In order for the “conversation” with touches to produce results, partners must be able to listen to each other’s response. Open people usually have no problems expressing their feelings: it’s nice, but it’s better not to do that. But in relationships with shy, inexperienced or slightly passive partners, you need to focus on the body's response, and not wait for verbal prompts.

Where are the erogenous zones of the female body located?

• The neck seems to be designed for arousal. Her caresses cause a surge of tenderness in most women. This can be stroking with fingers and kissing - on one side and the other.
• The wrists are also sensitive. The good thing about caressing this point is that you can do it anywhere, even in the presence of other people. The wrists are most often bare and touching them is not considered something intimate. The inner bend of the elbow is also very sensitive - a kiss on this place is a big turn-on, especially if it is gentle.
• The popliteal cavity on the leg is the most unobvious, but effective point. You can tickle, kiss, try to bite, if this does not cause protest.
• Biting your earlobes during lovemaking is like detonating a sex bomb, and not only women, but also men adore it.
• Sexual arousal can be enhanced by giving a foot massage. However, not everyone accepts this method - sometimes caressing the soles causes a feeling of shyness. But most men like the look of an elegant female leg, so you shouldn’t deny your loved one the pleasure of playing with this part of the body.
• The inside of the lips, tongue and gums are one of the most striking transmitters of sexual arousal. No wonder people kiss! A skillfully executed kiss on the inside of the lip turns you on with half a turn. Both top and bottom.
• The sacral area - from the lower back to the tailbone - is easily stimulated even through clothing. Stroking from top to bottom and massage precede good sex.

What should an erotic massage be like?

The main rule is no rudeness. It is necessary to carry out the impact with increasing force, but it is important to stop in time.

Basic techniques for massage of female erogenous zones:

• It is always better to start with gentle touches: with your fingertips, sliding movements with the back of your hand or its edge.
• Touches that warm the skin are not rubbing, as with a regular massage, but stroking with minimal pressure, with the entire palm, without lifting the hand from the surface of the skin.
• The pressure should also be very, very shallow, with two or three fingers, while you can slightly move the skin and release (blood rushes to the massage site and causes a pleasant sensation).
• Pinches can be used at the woman’s request, but most often they are pleasant only in those places where rather deep muscles lie - the buttocks, forearms, thighs. Pinching the chest, neck, back and armpits is unpleasant for most women, and sometimes causes pain or tickling, which has little to do with erotic arousal.
• You just need to touch the most erogenous points - in the area of ​​the genitals and mammary glands, apply your palm and make a few vibrating movements.
• Use objects with contrasting touch. The trick with a piece of ice and a kiss with hot lips is well known. For the latter, simply hold hot water in your mouth. Alternatively, alternate between stroking with a soft cloth or fluffy feather and lightly scratching with a thin, sharp object (not a needle, of course!). This type of caress is not designed for tactile sensations, like a massage, but for irritating skin receptors. The best places for them are the back, buttocks, stomach, inner thighs, forearms, wrists, and neck.
• The part of the head with hair is in fact not an erogenous zone for either women or men. However, exposure to it gives some a tangible effect of relaxation and excitement at the same time. So massaging your head or lightly tugging your hair is also love caress.

If you are going to teach your partner the geography of your body, encourage actions with your voice, a sigh, or any sound that shows that you are experiencing pleasure at this moment. This kind of mutual learning takes time, but the effort is worth it!

In women, the sensitivity of the body is stronger and more subtle than in men. It has a close connection with sexuality. Knowing a woman's erogenous points is a sure way for a man to become famous as a chic lover. It's no secret that for a girl, foreplay is the most important part of sex. When touching sensitive areas, she receives strong stimulation. If you recognize a woman's body, both partners will enjoy the sexual process.

Erogenous zone: what is it?

An erogenous point is the most sensitive place on the body, when exposed to which you can cause sexual arousal. These zones are provided by nature itself. Women have much more of them than men. But some people do not know or have a vague idea about such places.

Interesting! To achieve maximum pleasure, it is important not just to touch them, but to do it correctly. Otherwise, you can achieve the opposite effect.

Erogenous zones in women

There is an opinion that a woman’s entire body is an erogenous zone. This is partly true. But there are places where sensuality is stronger. However, men rarely burden themselves with searching for such points. After all, they can change the location and degree of sensitivity. This is influenced by the state of the nervous system, physiological and other factors. Therefore, it is quite difficult to determine exactly at what moment and what should be influenced in order to give the girl maximum pleasure.

The most sensitive places in a woman:

• lips;
• language;
• eyelids;
• vagina and clitoris (the most sensitive);
• earlobes;
• lower abdomen (near the pubis);
• mid-shoulder;
• nipple and area around it;
• the place above and below the breast;
• inner side of the wrist;
• area around the navel;
• the area between and under the shoulder blades;
• waist;
• hypochondrium;
• spine;
• buttocks;
• area under the knees;
• feet;
• hole above the collarbone.

All of the above zones are considered primary, they are provided by nature. In some women they are present in a complex, in others only separate places are distinguished.

There are also secondary zones that are acquired. As sexual experience develops, they open in the girl and can be located anywhere.

There are several zones on a woman’s back, touching which can cause arousal. The first is the “cat place”. It is located between the shoulder blades. The second place that gives a girl pleasure when touched is the lower back. To achieve maximum relaxation during a massage, it is recommended to work on these points.

Erogenous zones for massage

First you need to decide exactly the purpose of the massage. If it is preventive, it is enough to act on sensitive areas of the back. In the case of erotic massage, it is worth paying attention to other areas.

Note! If the goal is to excite your partner, you can massage any sensitive areas. The main thing is that it gives her pleasure.

An intimate massage should begin with light strokes. You can use special lotions or oils. Do not immediately pay attention to sensitive areas. As you relax, you can begin stroking the erogenous areas of the body. An intimate massage also includes kissing sensitive areas, which will allow the partner to get maximum pleasure. And you need to perform it according to the principle of dancing and giving pleasure to your partner.

Note! Light music and the use of aromatic oils will create a favorable atmosphere, relax and tune in to the right mood.

It is impossible for a woman not to have erogenous zones. Most likely, she has not yet discovered them for herself. Her partner can help her with this, whose main task is to please his girlfriend. This will guarantee not only your partner’s trust, but also passionate sex.

How many erogenous zones can you list right away? Probably not so many: lips, breasts, clitoris, G-spot. Of course, in addition to such “general” hot spots, there are also individual ones. Some people like kisses on the neck, some love having their hair stroked, others have a sensitive back.

In a word, when you find yourself in bed with a new partner, you usually have to either follow the long-known (and already quite boring) route: “lips, breasts, genitals,” or look for new paths of pleasure...

Of course, you can develop your own scenarios for foreplay, but why reinvent the wheel? Family consultant of the American College of Sexology Veronica Monet has already done everything for you: she found 6 super-sensitive erogenous zones that we never get our hands on (or other parts).

Erogenous zone No. 1. Perineum

Where is it located? The hot spot is located directly between the genitals and the anus. This small area of ​​skin is very sensitive in both men and women!

How to stimulate? There are many options! This can be done with your tongue, fingers, or even your favorite vibrator. This is a good erogenous zone both for foreplay (before moving on to caressing the genitals, you can tease the “adjacent territories”) and for stimulation during sex (the orgasm will be brighter).

Erogenous zone No. 2. Feet

Where are they located? Of course, on your feet! But did you know about this hot spot?!

How to stimulate? Think about how relaxing a pedicure is. But many men have never experienced this pleasure...

Feet are sensitive enough to be an erogenous zone for both you and him. Give each other a foot massage. You can start with a warm bath with aromatic jasmine, mint or ylang-ylang oil. Then use a gentle scrub. And finally, drop a little moisturizing or nourishing cream onto your palm and proceed directly to the massage...

Erogenous zone No. 3. Testicles

Where are they located? In a man, right under his main advantage.

How to stimulate? Unfortunately, we often forget about this part of the body. And in vain! In most men, the testicles are no less sensitive than the penis itself. Caress them with your fingertips during foreplay. Or with the tongue during a blowjob. You can even put them in your mouth. The man will be in ecstasy. Especially if you do waxing first! Shaved skin on the testicles becomes hyper-sensitive.

Erogenous zone No. 4. G-spot

Where is it located? Almost everyone knows where the G-spot is located in women (on the upper wall of the vagina at a distance of about half a finger). But did you know that men also have a G-spot?

To find it, stick your finger an inch or an inch and a half into your partner’s anus - you will feel a small depression.

How to stimulate? When you find the treasured depression, begin to move your finger, as if you are calling someone to you. MCH will be in seventh heaven. Just don't forget to cut your nails first!

Erogenous zone No. 5. Buttocks and lower back

Where is it located? You know!

How to stimulate? This is a difficult to reach area. The person himself rarely touches it and certainly never stimulates it during masturbation. However, these are the places that really need affection. To begin, stretch each other's lower back. This is a part of the body that rarely relaxes. In this case, it is the lower back that actively participates in sexual intercourse.

The buttocks are simply very sensitive to touch. Otherwise, by gently kissing or massaging them, you will ensure blood flow to the genitals.

Erogenous zone No. 6. Eyelids and back of the neck

Where is it located? No comments!

How to stimulate? Gentle and light kisses, touches of fingertips, breathing.

You can gently massage the back of your loved one’s head and you will be surprised by the result: a wave of bliss will run through your man’s body. And he will also relax. During the day, sometimes without even noticing it, we get very tired. All this tension does not go anywhere - it remains in the neck muscles. But you know very well that good sex does not work when one of the partners is under stress.

Therefore, during foreplay, feel free to caress the back of your loved one’s head - you will like it!