We want to quickly tell everything about ourselves and learn as much as possible about our partner. But emotions are seething, and the brain temporarily stops working, and words come out on their own, overtaking thoughts, and it’s as if you’ve completely forgotten how to listen...

They say that women love with their ears, however, in many ways this also applies to men. Complimenting a man is not just normal, it is very important. Of course, you shouldn't overdo it - your conversation shouldn't turn into an ode of praise, but telling him that he has an excellent jacket or that you admire his strong hands will not go amiss.

It is important not only to give compliments, but also to accept them from a man. When he praises your figure, and in response you begin to tell him that in fact you need to lose weight and lose weight, this causes bewilderment. If it is difficult to accept compliments from a man, then it is best to simply smile and say “thank you”, without any “buts”.

• Don't talk about politics;
• Don't talk about negativity;
• Don't discuss your past relationships on the first date.

These three topics can take away any romantic mood from a man. He immediately sees in you not the beautiful and inspiring girl that you are, but what you don't want to, but show him - your insecurities.

On a first date there is no place for the past; you need to focus your attention on the present and future. You need to focus on your partner, communicate, laugh and be active. And the last thing is very important. Passivity on a date can be interpreted as a lack of interest in the man. Relax and be yourself - the more open you are, the easier it will be for you and your partner to build your future relationship.

On the first date, you shouldn’t get ahead of yourself—you don’t need to imagine your wedding, your house, or come up with names for your children. Such excessive haste is inappropriate; it can alert a man. This is only the first date, you practically don’t know this man, but you are already painting pictures of your future life in bright colors and the smallest details.

Talk about your hobbies, interests, ask the man about his hobbies. When you talk about topics that are close to your interlocutor, it immediately evokes a lively response from the person, he sees your interest. He begins to smile, remember stories from life, and if your interests are similar, then on the first date you can find a lot in common, and this is really valuable. A man will see and appreciate your interest. Talk about yourself, see if he shows interest in your life or if he wants to talk more about himself.

A first date is a way to learn about your partner. Remember the fairy tale about Cinderella - the main thing is to leave on time, so the first date should not be long. And when you feel limited in time, you will not waste it on trifles. You need to get as much information, emotions and impressions as possible, and at home you can calmly think it over, weigh it and understand whether this is the person for you.

Project your standards, stories, experiences. Maybe something happened to you now or these are moments from the past. So, you become liberated and give more.

You speak slowly, placing accents. If you say some points more expressively, that’s normal.

Don't filter your words: voice your fantasies

You shouldn't be afraid to seem funny or stupid. Many people are tense and don't say what they really want to say.

Express yourself fully don't filter your words. This means, you voice your fantasies with her and don't be embarrassed by them.

Communicate with her the same way you would with your close friends..

Give value selflessly: tell more yourself

Tell us more yourself!

By giving more, you get much more later. When giving, never want to receive anything in return. You are telling something disinterestedly.

Don't ask a girl too many questions on the first date. At least at first. You shouldn't communicate as if you were interviewing her and asking her question after question. Otherwise, it will look as if you are some kind of prosecutor or district police officer during interrogation.

Incorporate the following beliefs and perceptions

1. Be prepared in advance to see positivity and friendliness in a person, even if you don’t know him. Learn to see only light and positive characteristics in every person.
   Even if a person is negative, it is your kind and positive attitude towards him that will change him.
2. It is we who choose how we will think about a person before we meet him..
   Your perception of a person, expressed in words, comes true and is reflected in your conversation.

Thus, you create your own interesting reality, where the girl gets involved I.

Your adventures and interests in life

Most men are afraid to talk about what interests them, they are afraid of losing a woman. They are afraid to show their worldview and how they see this world.

If you are not locked up within four walls every day, then you always have something to talk about with people. If you live a rich, fulfilling life, then you shouldn’t have any problems with what to talk about on your first date with a girl.

If every day you have adventures and interesting events, then you sociable person and you always have something to tell.

tell me about your day

On the first date you can always tell the girl about how your day was.

• For example, how you wished people a good day today.
• Tell me about the delicious soup your mother cooked for you today.
• Tell us about what books you read, what and who they talk about.
• If you really have nothing to say and you’re at a loss, say so: “ I do not even know what to say. Ask me about something».

Stories of your childhood pranks and pranks

In all the years that you have lived, you have a lot of interesting events that you can share with a girl on a first date.

For example, you can talk about your childhood pranks or pranks.

For example, my parents told me that as a child I loved to walk around the apartment with a match in his teeth. I pretended that I was smoking a cigarette or something like that. It's funny to imagine. I guess I was imitating someone from my cartoon or TV series. I don't remember. Only instead of a cigarette I had a match in my teeth.

I can talk about myself for hours because I love my life. I can always immediately find the right topic for conversation with a girl.

Tell her what emotions and feelings she gives birth to in you

You can always voice what you feel about her now. What emotions does it give rise to in you? What awakens and awakens in you when she is near.

The girl wants a normal, adequate man. Otherwise, if a guy is somehow secretive, hides his intentions, behaves strangely, doesn’t say something, then this is repulsive.

Don't ask what guys she's been with or what cars she drives.

Don't talk to her about guts, terrorists or anything negative.

Video of my approach to a pretty woman

This is an interesting video with an example of my acquaintance.

This video records an incident from my life when what to talk about on the first date with a girl or when meeting a girl for the first time is not so important to me, and I still get results.

Here I am approaching a fairly mature, attractive woman who has her own boyfriend and another child.

Open up sincerely to the girl

When will you learn to open up to a girl?, you will get closer very quickly.

If you speak sincerely to a girl, you will show it to the person with great love, as it is a part of you and it is projected with you.

It is when you open up that people see you as an interesting person.

Speak from the heart and with passion

The secret of trust and comfort – is to open up to a girl and talk with passion.

Don’t forget about the depth - what your values ​​are, what touches you and what you love in this world.

Tell me, roughly speaking, “from the heart” - and she will immediately feel you on a deeper level. Otherwise, there may simply be no connection between you.

Voice your dreams, ideas and passions

The Secret of Stories

Know that stories are never perfect. No need to say it word for word. No need to remember the text. Simple enough remember the picture before your eyes to describe it.

Yes, you can make your first date unforgettable, but it will never be perfect. And you don't need it to be perfect, because that's very boring.

Remember that on the first date you can always straighten out the conversation, even if at the beginning you started it not entirely confidently. These are all trifles, and the girl does not attach much importance to this.

Be genuinely interested in the girl

This means that you don't ask a girl questions just because you have to. It means that if a girl attracts you and you are attracted to her, you yourself naturally recognize her and are interested in her.

• Interesting topic for conversation with a girl – it's herself.
  Get to know her inner world.
• Take an interest in her to see if she fits your standards.
  Each person should have personal boundaries about what you accept in another person and what you don’t.
• Ask the girl, what does she like in this life.
  Because you're wondering why she's with me and why I chose her. I want to know more about her world inside.

Don't be interested only in her body, be sincerely interested in her. Keep these tips in mind for your first date with a girl. Then you will be interesting to her. You will be different from most men. Who else is really interested in a woman if not you?

My video about how a man and a woman attract

Here I reveal the truth of what actually attracts a man and a woman to each other.

Why are words not really important? Watch this video to understand what to talk about with a woman on the first date.

Popular mistakes of men

Don't have a need for it - it's repulsive

If you have personal boundaries and personal standards, then when communicating with you, if you don’t like something, show and voice that you do not accept it.

You're not going to spend time with her just because she's beautiful and has a nice ass. Don't look at the fact that she is beautiful, find out who she really is.

You don't need her looks, but you are interested in her inner world. You can leave if you don't like her inner world. Remember these first date rules.

What touches all people when communicating

You can use this in different situations: to keep a girl's attention on a first date or conducting an effective business meetings.

You can talk to an individual individually - just by looking into their eyes. Then switch to someone else.

You want to give something individually to each person and the whole room. Even if you are talking to a girl or to a full audience. It doesn't matter what you say.

The most important thing in all of this is PASSION! She stands behind your words and this is the very thing that touches all people.

It is important to understand things:

1. When you are doing something, you are not going towards the end result, and enjoy the process. You get real emotions that touch you in the process. These two points of beginning and end seem to be excluded. Only the process matters.
2. Thinking and reflecting, it would be nice to go on a date with a girl - no pleasure. And when you are already communicating with her - it is at this moment that both life and pleasure. Even if you doubt and think that this is not so, it is still so! The moment is now - this is where life is! Not before and not after!

You can also learn the most delicious secrets of seduction and the subtleties of social dynamics and getting closer to girls in my training programs. See you!

Awkward silence, misunderstandings, accidental or even deliberate insults and the final breakup - this is what threatens the inability to choose the right topics. What to talk about on a first date so as to avoid negative consequences? How to make a good impression and open up your interlocutor?

Rules of good manners, a list of appropriate questions and prohibitions are in this article.

How to ask questions on a date

The way a person asks questions reflects his manners, ability to communicate, and level of culture. Accordingly, the attitude towards the narrator will differ depending on his communication skills. Below are recommendations on how to correctly ask your interlocutor about something.

Recommendation	Wrong	Right
Avoid interrogation	"What is your profession? Like? What is your experience?”	"What are you doing? (wait for an answer) Please tell me in more detail. It is very interesting to me".
Dilute phrases with emotions	“Do you like poetry? Hmm, I see…".	“Are you into poetry? Amazing! You must be a very sophisticated person. I like it".
Use different types of questions	Do you love movies? What about horror movies? Have you watched “Avatar”? Did you like it?	Do you like movies? What genres do you prefer? Comedy and fantasy. I like them too. How do you like “Avatar”? What's your favorite moment? A wonderful film. I'm delighted with the shots where...
Less dryness, more romance	“Why do you go on dates? Why one/one?”	“You have amazing looks, a pleasant character, how come you don’t have a partner yet?”
Respect your opponent's opinion, avoid judgment	I love zombie movies! Apocalypse, blood, exclusion zone... Wow, cool! How do you like them? To be honest, not really... I prefer detective stories. Are they the boring ones?	What do you think of zombie films? I prefer detective stories. Hmm, they are not entirely clear to me. Can you explain why you like them? Perhaps I will find something intriguing in them too.

What to talk about on a date - 50 questions

Hobbies and interests

1. What do you like to do in your free time? For some reason it seems to me that you are a person with a whole bunch of hobbies.
2. What do you usually do when you're sad/lonely/want to have fun?
3. How does your leisure time differ in winter and in summer?
4. Do you like this place? Or do you prefer others? Which ones exactly?
5. What cuisine is your favorite? Do you have a favorite dish?
6. Time for the battle of the century! Books or cinema, a club or an evening in the comfort of home, tea or coffee - what will you choose? Why?
7. Who or what serves as a source of inspiration and motivation for you?
8. Do you play or have you played any video games? What do you like or repel?
9. If there was no money in the world at all, what would you do?
10. Describe your ideal partner. How did such expectations arise?

A look into the past

1. If you had the opportunity to change one event from the past, what would it be and how would you change it?
2. Have there been times in your life when you felt in seventh heaven?
3. What events made you change your interests, reconsider your own worldview?
4. Do you have a favorite photo? Describe her, please.
5. What did you dream about as a child? What were you like as a child?
6. When were you most scared? What or who made you come to your senses?
7. Which age of the years you have already experienced do you consider the happiest or most successful?
8. Do you believe in the hidden meaning of dreams? Have you ever had prophetic dreams?
9. What is the best gift you have ever been given? What gifts did you give?
10. Compare yourself now and 5 years ago. What changed?

Everyday life and everyday life

1. Who are you according to your biorhythm - an owl, a lark, a dove? What time do you feel most active?
2. How does your everyday life usually go? What about the weekend?
3. How often do you see your friends, how much time do you spend with them?
4. What do you prefer to eat for breakfast, lunch, dinner? Do you stick to a specific diet or do you like spontaneity?
5. Do you have any pets? Which? Would you like more?
6. Are you a graphic person or an improvisation person? How often do your plans get disrupted?
7. Have you ever sung in the shower or in the kitchen? What were these songs? Did you do it because you just liked it, because of a good mood or because of some event?
8. Do you like to receive guests? How about visiting? Why?
9. What is your least favorite housework? What seems like an easy task to you?
10. Does it ever happen that you work from home? Which room is easier for you to do this in?

Future and ambitions

1. How do you want to live in 5 years? In 10 or 20? Where do you see yourself?
2. What age do you consider optimal to start a family and why?
3. What is your deepest dream? How do you think it can be achieved?
4. What area of ​​your life or yourself would you like to develop more?
5. What new thing would you like to learn? What is the reason for this desire?
6. If you were given the opportunity to change one thing in the world, what would it be?
7. If you had an unlimited supply of money, what would you spend it on first?
8. If you were the boss of a company, what kind of business would it be? How many subordinates would you have at your disposal?
9. Would you like to emigrate somewhere? Travel? For which countries or cities?
10. What event or period of life are you most looking forward to?

Character and temperament

1. Are you a jealous person? What can make you jealous - a mere trifle or a direct fact supported by significant evidence?
2. Do you like risk, the feeling of excitement? Or do you prefer safety, reliability, rationality, do you like to weigh the pros and cons?
3. Do you find it difficult to express emotions and trust people? How quickly do you get along with new acquaintances?
4. What can piss you off in just a second? How often do you get angry or irritated?
5. How often do you laugh? How do you deal with problems - do you try to think them over, turn them into a joke, or do you take them to heart?
6. Are you a sensitive person? What can make you cry? Has it ever happened to you that while watching a film, emotions took over during a touching moment?
7. Let's imagine a situation: you buy a product in a store, come home and notice a barely noticeable and completely fixable defect on it. Will you change your purchase, buy a new thing, or try to fix the problem on your own?
8. How do you prefer to resolve conflicts with loved ones? Do you try to leave and cool down, do you try to immediately discuss the problem, or do you allow both yourself and your interlocutor to throw out emotions?
9. Do you have phobias or just fears? Have you ever tried to overcome them? If so, how?
10. Have you ever had bad habits that you managed to break? Which ones are left? Do you have a desire to fight them?

What topics should you avoid on a date?

Even applying the rules of etiquette, using the latest discoveries of psychology, you can get into an awkward situation if you raise the wrong questions. List of topics that it is better not to mention not only on the first, but also on the second or third date:

• politics, economics, government, official affairs;
• religious issues, its historical aspect;
• former relationships, negative qualities of ex-partners;
• money, earnings, social status associated with them;
• health problems or difficulties that the interlocutor did not ask about;
• personal achievements often and in a boastful style.

In order not to worry and not figure out on the fly what to talk about on the first date, it is better to read the article several times. This will allow you to remember possible topics well and consolidate your knowledge of what it is advisable to avoid. It is not necessary to ask all the questions or voice them strictly in the order in which they are presented. It is enough to identify a few of the most important things for yourself and memorize a couple of additional ones, just in case.

The first date is an important and crucial moment for all of us, but it doesn’t happen like that. So that everything goes smoothly absolutely always. There are situations in which it is difficult to remain calm.

The lack of topics for conversation is not a problem, because people are not talking about any topic, but simply talking. When the discussion ends, it may turn out that you need to somehow continue the conversation, but it becomes a little awkward because of the desire to please the person. You don't need to go to Google to find a list of the most trending topics. A conversation begins with a phrase, with the words of a person. It shouldn't be fake. Being yourself is one of the main tips from psychologists for those who want to have a successful first date.

How to avoid running out of topics to talk about

The best way to solve a problem is, as always, not to let it happen. On a date, you need to be relaxed, so you can talk about anything: about holey socks, about politics, about sex, about food, about work, about problems, about religion. You can touch on anything because you just want to. The best advice from psychologists is to say whatever you want, but to maintain consistency. There is no need to take the initiative by artificially changing the topic. If the thought and topic of conversation stops at work, do not immediately jump to another topic that is convenient for you or just to seem like an interesting interlocutor.

It happens that people are taciturn on their own. There are already two options for the development of events - leave everything as it is, or adapt to the person. You should only talk about abstract topics, because the person is most likely shy or complex. Don’t point this out to him by asking “why are you silent?” In general, this is the main psychological advice for all people - do not ask a person why he is silent. This is terribly infuriating.

Tip one: Don’t get hung up and focus on the problem. This is very important, because if a person really has some kind of problem, then you will simply confirm his or her fears. They might just run away from you.

Tip two: if you both fell silent, then you can continue the natural train of thoughts by simply explaining your emotions regarding the date, the place where you are. Don't talk about the person, say exactly what you're thinking about this evening or day. Something like: “It’s so great that I found the time to meet you. I really like that I can finally afford to sit here with you like this.”

Tip three: What's your favorite movie? Ask this question if you feel that the situation is getting complicated, that silence will soon follow. Don't wait until it's clear that you asked this to keep the conversation going. The fact is that not everyone reads books, but everyone loves movies without exception. You can say something like: “Listen, do you go to the movies? Don’t you know what’s worth watching right now?” Create the illusion of special interest so that it doesn't look like you're jumping on topic to avoid problems. Say that you don’t know what to watch because you’ve watched everything. This only works with movies, keep that in mind. Asking “oh, what’s North Korea’s deal with the United States?” no need. Cinema is the best time killer.

Tip five: learn to listen and support the topic that interests your interlocutor. If you maintain a topic of conversation that is interesting to your interlocutor, then he will never stop talking, the problem will not even appear. You won't even think twice about what you need to do. Ask as many questions as possible on the topic that you think is interesting to your companion. This is a very, very effective method of not letting a date come to a standstill. This will be especially useful for men, since ladies love it when they listen to them.

If these tips did not help you, then most likely you are doing something wrong or the wrong person is sitting in front of you who is not suitable for you. Be yourself, be honest with yourself and don't try to play someone else. Don’t listen to stupid advice about what exactly needs to be said, like: “Let’s think together about what topic we should choose.” God, how boring this sounds. Put yourself in the shoes of the girl or guy you are sitting with. Imagine him or her telling you this. That's right, you are the most boring person in the world. It is better to remain silent than to carry some kind of nonsense - this is the best advice in this case.

The development of the relationship will most likely depend on how the first date goes. What can or cannot be said to young people, how to conduct a dialogue correctly, without embarrassment, choosing the right words and expressions.

Choosing a date place

It just so happens that in most cases the initiator of the first date is a representative of the stronger sex, so the right to choose the meeting place belongs to him. If a man wants to give the initiative to a woman, then often she will still place this task on his shoulders.

In principle, the place can be absolutely any. But there are several important factors that determine the success of this event:

• Silence is the key to a successful conversation. You should pay attention to ensure that no one interferes with communication. Loud music around and the presence of noisy companies nearby will not at all impart relaxedness and a kind of comfort on the first date.
• Unique places are the first step to conquering a woman's heart. If the place where you decide to meet and be together for the first time is unusual, this will be an additional plus in favor of the guy. After all, girls love it when they are surprised.
• Familiar surroundings will give you confidence. It is advisable that the inviter is already at the appointed place before the meeting. This will give you confidence, reduce the risk of being in an embarrassing situation, and communication on the first date will become relaxed and exciting.

If a girl nevertheless takes the reins into her own hands, then most often it can be an expensive restaurant, an art exhibition, a walk in the park or any other crowded place, or a club. It’s better to find out about the establishment’s prices in advance so as not to find yourself in an awkward situation in the evening.

The emotions and experiences of young or not so young people at the first meeting are directly related to each other, so the choice of place in some way determines the desire to meet this person again. The unusualness of a room or a corner in nature will add piquancy and leave a pleasant mark in the memory, and perhaps for life.

Topics to talk about on a first date

For a first date, the main thing is not only to give your appearance an attractive image (do a beautiful hairstyle, skillfully apply makeup and choose an outfit), but also to be able to communicate, and correctly think through interesting topics for conversation. Awkward silence can only aggravate the situation if both partners are shy and modest. There are several topics of conversation that people of different backgrounds can support and continue.

Friends and parents

Perhaps one of the safest and most harmless topics for communication on the first date for both a guy and a girl. There is no need to come up with unnecessary words or beat around the bush to find out about your partner’s attitude towards the people around him. Thanks to this topic, you can understand the range of interests of the interlocutor at the initial stage of communication.

Everyone knows the popular wisdom from the ancient Greek poet Euripides: “Tell me who your friend is, and I will tell you who you are.” Friends and people close to him speak about a person’s character, his moral principles, and principles.

At the beginning of a relationship, you should not be too openly interested in your parents, their interests, activities and means of earning money. This can leave a negative impression on the person who is not yet ready to discuss the topic or has not personally initiated the conversation about them.

Work and study

For young people who are trying to get to know each other better on a first date, study or work are one of the main priorities at this stage of their life's journey. The conversation will turn to them in any case. Especially if the conversation has exhausted itself and has reached a bit of a dead end, you can always ask a question about the educational institution, the place of work of the interlocutor, or plans for the future. This is a good way to keep the conversation going.

If you have common interests, you may not notice how a calm conversation can turn into a heated and fascinating discussion. The main thing is not to go too far with your arguments and not to put pressure on your interlocutor.

Hobbies and preferences

It is very important to find out about your partner's hobbies outside of work or school. Its absence can tell a lot about a person. The topic is worth touching on when communicating on the first date, because from this you can draw some conclusions and decide whether to continue dating this person or end everything at the initial stage.

The safest and most unobtrusive topics for the first conversation are about favorite musical styles, culinary tastes and preferences. Perhaps, by tactfully asking about preferences without focusing on this, on your next date you can arrange a self-prepared romantic dinner by candlelight to your partner’s favorite music. This will undoubtedly impress him.

Jokes and anecdotes

An easy and relaxed conversation on the above topics can sometimes be moderately diluted with jokes and anecdotes. This will allow you to overcome the barrier of constraint, which is very important when communicating on a first date, and at the same time test your partner’s sense of humor. After all, it’s nice to listen to the sincere laughter of a person you like, for whose sake you decided to take such a reverent step.

Improvisation and switching to another topic through communication in a humorous manner will help get out of a tense situation when the conversation has reached a dead end or has become a little constrained due to the diverse interests of overly temperamental interlocutors. However, you need to understand the line when humor becomes annoying.

What to say to a girl and a guy on the first date

It's finally done! He noticed you among many, appreciated you and invited you on a date. These joyful experiences cannot be confused with anything. Fashionable hairstyle, makeup, outfit (dress or jeans) - all this was important and necessary at the first meeting. But not only that. Behavior, gestures, tactile sensations will put the picture together into a single whole.

The visual effect passes, the aroma of perfume becomes familiar, and communication takes over. Let's try to figure out what to talk about on the first date with a man.

There are several steps that will help you overcome unwanted modesty and excessive embarrassment when communicating. Here are the most important of them:

Guys love to help, so you can ask for advice or ask for an opinion on a particular problem. For example, with a computer. Talking about pets will help smooth out any confusion in communication. Pets can be another reason for new meetings.

If a man does not take the initiative into his own hands and does not maintain communication, then perhaps he simply did not like the girl’s company. In this case, you shouldn’t be upset, just end the evening early and say goodbye.

How to conduct a dialogue on a first date between a guy and a girl

Guys, by nature, have more pronounced leadership traits than girls, so they are less shy and will quickly find a topic for conversation. But excitement and fear at a meeting can lead to confusion. It’s worth thinking in advance what to say to a girl on the first date.

Girls love confident guys. But not everyone can boast of this on the first date. Therefore, you need to relax and calm down before him. Don’t dress too brightly and pompously, pouring eau de toilette over yourself from head to toe. It is enough to be washed, neatly and cleanly dressed and smell slightly of perfume. It is advisable to buy flowers, but not necessary. You can replace them with a small figurine or a soft toy. It is also worth considering that the person who gave it will have to walk around with a huge bouquet of roses all evening.

Further joint meetings depend on how the first date goes. The most important thing is to interest the girl, be attentive and polite, be able to listen to her and not stoop to vulgarity and rudeness.

Here are some tips on what to talk about on a first date with a girl:

• It's very easy to start a conversation. You can start by asking the girl about life, friends, study or work, and hobbies. The main thing is to ask questions first, so as not to create a situation of “awkward silence.” Under no circumstances should you turn all this into a form of interrogation, otherwise you might mistake the guy for a thief or a maniac.
• Unobtrusively find out about her preferences and tastes. When communicating, it is advisable not to argue, expressing an opposing point of view, but, on the contrary, to show the compatibility of interests and preferences. This brings people closer together and makes it possible to continue communication more actively. It would be good if we really found common ground and had the opportunity to talk about it for hours.
• If suddenly the pause is too long, you can check her sense of humor. Tell an interesting and funny story from your life or fill them with jokes. It’s good if you don’t wait for such pauses, but alternate them with conversations on general topics.
• When communicating with a girl, you don’t need to make yourself a “superhero”, attributing non-existent feats. Basically they don't like it. One must be sincere, frank and avoid deception. If you suddenly come across someone who quickly sees through this, it will be very unpleasant. Humble and true stories are ideal topics for conversation on a first date.

Prohibited topics on a first date

There are unwanted topics and moments that are inappropriate and unnecessary on a first date. Here are the main ones:

1. Religion and politics. Such topics should be avoided on the first date, because they are quite subjective. The points of view of the interlocutors may turn out to be completely opposite, which will ultimately lead to heated discussion and argument. It can also bring to an end a relationship that never began.
2. Former partners. This is what you can’t talk about on a first date under any pretext. The topic will be unpleasant for both. You can overdo it and reveal your shortcomings ahead of time by telling why your past relationship broke up. Comparison with a new person’s ex is even more inappropriate.
3. Health problems. A story about a broken arm in childhood under funny circumstances can amuse, but a story about chronic flatulence, for example, will only scare you away.
4. Stories about people who are unknown to the interlocutor. The topic is tiring and can leave a negative impression, because it also reveals the shortcomings expressed in relation to various categories of acquaintances.
5. Auto, sports and technology. Basically, only guys are interested in these things; most girls are far from such topics and special terms (although there are exceptions - then it’s possible). And stories about entertaining football matches, knowledge of tournament tables or the technical characteristics of a motorcycle will not make the right impression on a girl.
6. Intimate relationships. The first date should not be overshadowed by the topic of intimacy and sex, otherwise you may mistake your partner for a pervert or one of those who “only need this from a girl.” Such a conversation on the first date is inappropriate and can lead to a dead end in future relationships. There are situations when the partner is not against this, as follows from the hints and the chosen topic. If everything happens by mutual consent, then there shouldn’t be any problems afterwards.
7. Comments on the appearance of the interlocutor. Even if you are somehow unsatisfied with your partner’s appearance, you should under no circumstances talk about it at the first meeting. Of course, if you want to repeat it again.

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The first date will tell partners a lot. To avoid bitter disappointment that you “said the wrong thing,” it’s worth thinking through the topics and remembering the stories that can be told. But overall, it’s important to just be yourself!