One of the most common questions that future parents ask in Internet search engines is: “How to 100% conceive a boy?” Although it is impossible to guarantee results without the intervention of modern medical technologies, many still believe in ancient traditions, folk methods, signs, prayers, and are ready to try them.

The discovery of female and male sex chromosomes, which determine the sex of the child at the time of conception, dates back to 1905 and belongs to geneticists Nettie Stevens and Edmund Wilson. The X and Y chromosomes inside the sperm must reach and penetrate the egg. This process is influenced by numerous factors.

Scientists have found that sperm carrying the X chromosome (female) are able to maintain mobility longer. But those with a Y chromosome (who are “responsible” for boys) move much faster. Therefore, if conditions are created in a woman’s body for sperm to quickly penetrate the uterus and its tubes, the likelihood of a “boy” sperm merging with the egg will increase.

It is not always possible for a couple to get pregnant with a boy the first time. Sometimes it takes years of trying. Therefore, it is not surprising that parents believe that “all means are good” and act, guided, among other things, by ancient traditions and beliefs. And, as it turns out, some “folk” methods are not as untenable as they seem at first glance. What can you believe?

Special diet

Traditional folk recommendations say that a certain type of diet and certain rules of eating can increase the chances of conceiving a son. At the stage of planning a pregnancy with a boy and on the day of conception, the following diet is recommended to parents.

• More alkaline foods. You need to eat foods that will change the pH (or acidity) of your body. Alkaline foods reduce the acidity of cervical mucus, which increases its permeability to sperm and can be of great importance in planning a boy.
• Frequent small meals. It is necessary to eat more often than usual and distribute daily calories into small portions to keep blood sugar levels constant. You need to eat with a regular breakfast, consuming more foods rich in sodium, potassium and vitamins B12, C, E.
• More calories. Research conducted at the University of Oxford suggests that the likelihood of pregnancy with a male baby is higher in those women who eat high-calorie porridge for breakfast every day.

• vegetables - broccoli, carrots, peas, zucchini, cucumbers, garlic, corn, potatoes;
• fruits - grapefruit, kiwi, avocado, banana, peach, plum;
• sweets - honey, dried apricots, dark chocolate;
• drinks - juices, carbonated drinks;
• oils - vegetable oil, olives;
• starch - porridge and pasta, bread, rolls, cookies;
• protein - meat and fish in any form of preparation;
• sodium and potassium - pickled vegetables.

When planning a boy, you should avoid the following dishes and foods:

• fermented milk and containing milk;
• seafood.

Suitable days

The method of conceiving a boy by ovulation also has a scientific basis. It is believed that the likelihood of getting a male child becomes higher if you have sexual intercourse in the following periods.

• Within 24 hours before the egg is released. The sperm carrying the Y chromosome will be in place by the time the egg leaves the ovary.
• In the first 12 hours after ovulation. At this time, the cervical mucus, which is produced during ovulation, thins and allows sperm with a Y chromosome to move quickly.

You can try to use this calendar method if a woman’s cycle is absolutely regular. With an irregular cycle, which days are best to conceive a boy can be judged by a pharmacy test that determines the moment of ovulation.

In addition, just like with the calendar method, you can calculate the conception of a boy using the basal temperature graph: on the eve of ovulation, the temperature drops slightly, and immediately after ovulation its pronounced jump is recorded.

It is believed that for the predominance of “boy” sperm in the sperm, men need to wear loose underwear and should not overheat the genitals (visit a sauna, take a hot bath). This is due to research data that, under the influence of elevated temperatures, sperm carrying Y chromosomes lose activity.

4 rules in bed

There are some intimate tips on how to give birth to a boy. Up to what position you can conceive a boy in and whether preliminary abstinence is necessary. So, there are four rules.

1. Sexual abstinence. It is advised to abstain from sexual intercourse for seven days before the appointed time.
2. Pose with deep penetration. Positions in which the man is behind the woman or she is sitting on top of the man (cowgirl position) are suitable. This shortens the road to the “goal” - a mature egg.
3. Simultaneous orgasm. It is believed that with simultaneous peak sensations, both partners secrete a secretion with an alkaline environment, which promotes the promotion of “boy” sperm.
4. Ten minutes on your back. After intercourse, a woman should lie on her back and spend at least ten minutes in this position. This ensures a greater likelihood of sperm penetration into the cervix.

All the methods described do not provide a 100% guarantee of conceiving a boy. According to scientific research, they only increase this probability compared to general statistics in the population.

What not to trust

The method of planning the sex of a child based on the blood of the parents, which is often found on the Internet, has no scientific basis and is not associated with periods of renewal of blood elements.

Thus, supporters of the technique claim that a woman’s blood is renewed every three years (starting from the age of 15), and a man’s blood is renewed every four years (starting from the age of 16). According to their advice, you need to compare whose blood is “younger”. If the man’s blood has recently been renewed, then the couple will have a boy. And if a woman “wins,” then you can prepare for the appearance of a girl. As a result, parents can supposedly plan the appropriate period for conception.

Actually this is not true. The true picture is this: every second, millions of red blood cells are formed in the human bone marrow. They “live” in the bloodstream for approximately 120 days, and are then absorbed by other cellular elements of the blood, which are responsible for removing dead cells and foreign agents. The lifespan of other blood cells is even shorter:

• leukocytes - from two to 15 days;
• eosinophils - 15 days;
• basophils - two to four days;
• macrophages - two to three months;
• platelets - seven to ten days.

Therefore, the sex of the baby does not depend in any way on the renewal of the parents’ blood. Also, the group or rhesus has nothing to do with it.

How to conceive a boy: IVF help

Nowadays, scientists can offer only one method that provides a guaranteed opportunity to choose the gender of the unborn child. This is a preimplantation diagnostic method in an artificial insemination program. It is used not only because of the great desire to give birth to a boy (due to religious views, for example), but also as an opportunity to exclude pathologies associated with gender, as well as as a method of treating infertility.

The essence of preimplantation genetic diagnosis

This method has a precise sequence of actions using high-tech medical equipment and, according to reviews, is performed by high-class specialists. What are they doing:

• a woman gets healthy eggs, and a man gets high-quality sperm;
• carry out the procedure of artificial insemination in vitro;
• examine the cells of the outer shell of embryos on the fifth day of life;
• determine the gender of a potential child;
• After diagnosis, the boy's embryo is transferred to the uterus.

There is no advice on how to get pregnant with a boy that would guarantee a 100% result. And even such a complex and expensive medical procedure as IVF is not a panacea. After all, the embryo does not always take root. Therefore, the birth of healthy children is more important, not their gender. And if the boy was not born this time, you just have to try again.

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Today, many tricks are known to help conceive a child of a certain gender. The most faithful considered a method for ovulation.

Modern science knows that males carry X and Y chromosomes, while females carry only X chromosomes. Therefore, the fusion of an egg with a sperm carrying the Y chromosome will ensure the conception of a boy.

Sperm with a Y chromosome are faster, but less tenacious, in contrast to sperm with chromosome X, which, on the contrary, are slow, but remain viable much longer.

Fertilization occurs during the release of the egg into the abdominal cavity. If conception took place on this very day, then the chance of quick Y sperm to get to the egg first is much higher than that of leisurely sperm with the X chromosome.

Thus, the likelihood of conceiving a boy is greater on the day of ovulation or in the next 24 hours after it.

If you conceived two to three days before ovulation, you will most likely have a daughter. It must be remembered that 48 hours after ovulation the egg dies, and the chance of conceiving a child is reduced to zero.

Now there are many ways to determine ovulation. Measuring and charting will allow you to track ovulation yourself.

To promote the conception of a male child It is advised to place a gun or an ax under the marital bed. Adapting to the conditions of modern life, a toy car is quite suitable.

Just be careful that this item is not discovered or taken by older children. You will hope that the bait is in its place, and the doll was brought there a long time ago, and you will successfully conceive another daughter.

There is an opinion that the gender of the child is also influenced by parents' mood at the most intimate moment.

If a man is thinking about how to conceive a boy, then he should make sure that the woman gets more pleasure during intimacy than he does for himself. In other words, in order to conceive a boy, a woman must experience orgasm.

By tables and calendars

Since ancient times, people have been concerned about the problem of planning the gender of their unborn child. It was then that different peoples created different calendars and conceptions.

Chinese calendar

This calendar has become very popular lately. And if Chinese doctors claim that its accuracy is 99%, then, as the practice of Russian women shows, it meets the expectations of parents at best by 60-70%.

This calendar is very easy to use. The vertical axis reflects the age of the expectant mother at the time of conception, and the horizontal axis represents the months of conception. At their intersection is the letter “M” - in this month you can conceive a boy or “D” - in this month you can conceive a girl.

If you still decide to use this method, It is better to choose a cycle that fits entirely within one calendar month to conceive a child of the desired sex. This will increase the effectiveness of this planning technique.

Japanese calendar

In addition to Chinese, there is a Japanese gender planning calendar. It consists of two tables.

In the first table The mother's birth months are listed vertically, and the father's months horizontally. At their intersection you need to find a number.

Remembering this number and finding it in the top row of the second table, you need to select the month of conception in the column below it. Then, in the two central columns, by the number of stars, determine the probability of conceiving a child of which gender this month is the greatest.

Taking into account the lunar cycle

They did not lag behind the sages of the east in ancient Rus'. It had its own floor planning system. It was taken into account that the female cycle is similar to the lunar cycle, and every woman has an “inner moon.”

The new moon is a period of critical days. Marital relations were prohibited during this period. The period lasted a week.

The period from the 11th to the 17th day of the cycle was called the “lunar road”. This is the most favorable period for conceiving offspring.

Each day had its own patroness - Rozhanitsa. And who was born depended on which of the 7 Rozhanitsa was under the auspices of the day of conception.

The days of conceiving a child of each gender alternate according to the Slavic calendar: 11th day boy, 12th girl, 13th girl, 14th boy, 15th girl, 16th boy, 17th girl.

From 18 to 21 days, abstinence from intimacy is advised so that the offspring are born healthy. After 21 days of the cycle, the time for safe love comes.

Nowadays, it is rare to meet a woman whose cycle is constant. Stress, ecology, nutrition make changes to the natural functioning of the female body.

Another method for determining the days to conceive a boy is numerical.

If the mother's age is odd, for example, 27 years old, then a boy should be conceived in even-numbered months: February, April, June, August, October, December.

If the mother's age is even, then on the contrary, it is most likely to conceive a boy in January, March, May, July, September, November, that is, in odd numbers.

Besides, if the father is older than the mother, the likelihood of having a first-born boy is higher than girls. If a woman is confident and energetic, then most likely she will be the mother of a son.

Special diet

Since a mother needs more resources to bear and raise a male child, then Well-nourished women are more likely to give birth to boys than women whose nutrition is limited.

The method of planning the sex of an unborn child using preparatory diets has long been known.

This method is based on the fact that microelements included in products affect the biochemical structure of eggs, providing the greatest probability of penetration by sperm with an X or Y chromosome.

It is worth consuming fruits and drinks such as juices, hydrocarbonate mineral waters, and teas. Food should salt well.

Limit dairy, legumes, baked goods, which include raw, green salad. Seafood and calcium mineral waters are not recommended.

This diet should be started four months before conception. Then cancel.

The most accurate method

If planning the gender of the child is related with the transmission of hereditary factors related to gender, and the goal of conceiving a boy is the birth of a healthy child without the manifestation of severe hereditary diseases, it is worth resorting to.

Specialists will select sperm with Y chromosomes, fertilize the egg with them, and implant the embryo into the mother. This is a method with a very high probability of having a child of the desired gender (about 80%). It's easier to get a boy than a girl.

The method is expensive, and whether it’s worth resorting to if there is no threat to the life and health of the offspring, it’s up to you to decide.

If you add to the list of ways to conceive a boy, a little esoteric, according to Luule Viilma, a son is conceived by a man who wants to prove his worth to himself, to please himself. Men who are less confident have a higher chance of conceiving a boy than those who are overly proud of themselves.

A son adds pride to a man. A self-confident man does not need additional pride. Men with healthy self-esteem conceive children of different genders. To conceive a son, the father of several daughters should reconsider his opinion about himself.

A perinatal psychologist I know claims that before conception you can “agree” and invite a child of the desired gender into your family.

Another opinion is that the child should be asked near the water. At the pond, you should say that you are asking for help to conceive a boy.

Let's turn to astrology

There is a place to be astrological method planning the gender of the first child. Zodiac signs are divided into male and female.

Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius – male signs. Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces - female signs.

A woman of a masculine sign conceives a boy of a feminine sign first, and vice versa. If the mother is a female zodiac sign wants to be the first to conceive a boy, then intimacy must be planned so that the child is born of a male zodiac sign.

For example, if the mother is Scorpio, the expected gender of the child is Gemini. The birth period of Gemini according to the horoscope is from May 21 to June 21. That is, the option on how to conceive a boy is to plan unprotected intimacy at the end of September - beginning of October, 9 months before the planned birth of the child.

Among the existing many methods of planning the sex of offspring there is not one that guarantees a 100% hit rate exactly how to conceive a boy.

Some couples manage to conceive a boy by timing pregnancy planning using blood. Others take away from the maternity hospital a son conceived by calculations using Chinese or Japanese tables.

Still others diligently adhered to their diet. The fourth were lucky, and the ax placed under the pillow lured the heir.

But if suddenly, after all the calculations, instead of the long-awaited strong little boy, you bring a tiny miracle into your house in a pink envelope, is this a reason for grief? It is not for nothing that the conception and birth of a child are called sacraments.

And there are higher powers who are given to know that this is the baby you need more than anything in the world. This baby is a reflection of your love for each other.

Perinatal psychologists believe that before conception, you can dream about a child of a certain gender. This should not be done after conception., because the baby growing inside the mother feels her mood and it is very important for him to be desired.

February 23 is the best time to support mothers of boys, who by status are supposed to have stronger nerves and quicker reactions. You are heroes! And for those mothers whose sons are still small, we have compiled a small list of warnings. They are not scary, but it is better to be prepared for them.

They never stop

I recently visited a friend who has a little girl. This sweet girl sat for about 30 minutes and studied. She drew, played with colored tape and created appliqué. I sat there in amazement, watching her, because just today my boys had been running around the house non-stop, playing fighter, and then they had dug up the entire backyard, climbed the fence, and ran in circles around each other. From the time they learned to walk, they never stopped. Even when they are doing things that require stopping (lunch, brushing teeth, watching TV) they dance, fidget and tumble. Literally. You can be nervous as much as you want, scream and ask to stop. But it's better to be prepared for this and relax.

You will need a lot of clothes

Clothes for little boys are simple. All they need are jeans, shorts and T-shirts. Very simple. The difficulty begins when it comes to quantity. My son is one pair of jeans short for the season. I bought another pair, but by the summer they were covered in holes. I even trudged to the store and bought new ones mid-season and still, every one of them had huge holes in one or both knees by the time the summer hit. So much for passing them on to your brother. There are some strange stains on the T-shirts that won't wash off. Shoes? A new pair is “used up” in 3-6 months! Maybe it's the balance bike, or maybe it's just the amount of movement that's killing them. Don't know. Outerwear lasts longer, but they outgrow it instantly. AAAA! By the way, expensive and cheap shoes wear out equally quickly. Therefore, I simply choose proven brands, but not the most expensive and popular ones. It is pointless.

Be prepared for injury

Being a mom of boys means you always have to be prepared for injury. Boys are naturally more at risk, and I swear my boys scrape their knees at least once a week during the summer. They wear shorts instead of jeans, so instead of holes in their jeans, they get abrasions. Over the years, I've learned to keep cotton balls, peroxide, and tissues with me at all times. And I advise you the same.

You will need a lot of food

My boys are still pretty young, but they'll give their dad a run for their money when it comes to eating. My five year old son eats the same amount for lunch as my husband.
I was surprised how much our grocery store bill increased when the kids started eating solid foods! Even as babies, my boys could eat as much as an adult. I don't know what I'll do when they become hungry teenagers. I shudder when I think about it.

Wheels, wheels and more wheels

I'm sure my boys will grow out of this one day, but for the last 5 years our playroom has been covered in roads and parking lots. I've tried to include more neutral toys in our playroom, but they just sit and gather dust. When we moved, the only toys I took with me were trains, cars and LEGO, and my boys were more than happy and didn’t think about other toys. Advice - do not waste money on complex and expensive toys. Make a car out of a matchbox, buy a construction set with wheels and a couple of trains. That's enough for the boys!

They are as sweet as girls

If you think that mothers of boys do not receive affection and love, you are deeply mistaken! Every day I hear “I love you” a thousand times and receive more hugs than I could ever imagine. In those rare moments when they stop, they want to hug and hold my hand.
Life with boys can be surprisingly enjoyable, despite the chaos and nerves. It will be very difficult to restrain yourself and not shout at them, because they create chaos and noise around. But being the mother of a boy or boys is damn nice. I know what I'm talking about.

Experts are reluctant to talk about programming the gender of the unborn child. It's still not very ethical. Moreover, in some countries there is still such a thing as selective abortion, when only children of a certain sex are left. Barbarism, whatever one may say. However, if you really want to, then it’s probably still possible to influence nature somehow! Our author Ekaterina Rizhskaya, the mother of a wonderful boy, spoke about her experience and the experience of her friends who also have sons, and Elena Mariutsa, a specialist in child gender planning, commented on popular methods.

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Ovulation method

Let's remember the school curriculum. XX are female chromosomes, XY are male chromosomes. If a woman's egg is fertilized by a sperm with an X chromosome, a girl will be born, if a sperm with a Y chromosome is fertilized, a boy will be born. It has been proven that the most active Y-sperm live a bright but short life, while the less active X, on the contrary, die much later. This means that our task is to “catch” the Y chromosomes.

On the day of ovulation, the chances of conceiving a boy are higher than on other days, since the alkaline environment is favorable for Y. All that remains is to decide on the date. Ovulation usually occurs 14 days before the start of the menstrual cycle. In a 28-day cycle, this is the 14th day. However, deviations are possible - due to simple stress or illness. So be on the lookout!

Personal experience

“I didn’t plan the sex of the child,” says the mother of a 9-year-old son. - But, looking at my personal calendar of 2007, I realized that pregnancy occurred precisely on the day of ovulation. Our Maximka was born! Coincidence."

Expert opinion

“The method has a right to exist,” notes Elena Mariutsa, a urologist and specialist in child gender planning. - Thinning the cervical mucus in the middle of the menstrual cycle actually makes it easier for sperm to penetrate through it. The strongest and fastest ones succeed – these are the “boys” (Y-spermatozoa). However, the method does not work 100 percent, at best 60-70 percent.”

The calendar was invented by sages more than seven centuries ago, and future parents not only from the Middle Kingdom look into it. How to use the table? The mother’s date of birth, in the Chinese understanding, is the date of conception, not birth, and this must be taken into account. If you were not born in January or February (the months when the new year according to the lunar calendar can begin), simply add nine months to your date of birth. If in other months, we find out when the New Year holiday happened and compare it with the date of birth. If it’s before the New Year, minus the year and add nine months to the resulting figure. And then from the intersection with the letter M we draw a line to the month in the top line (they also begin on the new moon) and... we begin to achieve the goal.

Personal experience

According to the lunar calendar, I was 35 years old at the time of conception; it happened in November. A boy comes out from the table. Top ten!

Expert opinion

Over 25 years of communicating with mothers and fathers before and after childbirth, I came up with the following statistics - only every second case hits the target. 50 to 50.

The Japanese consider the birth of a boy to be a gift of fate. The first son has been surrounded by truly imperial care since birth. Both adults and younger brothers and sisters emphasize its importance in every possible way. And he, happy, bathes in everyone’s attention and, as a rule, grows up to be selfish. The calendar is easy to use. First, we determine the family number - it is at the intersection of the birth lines of a man and a woman. Then, in the column numbered with this number, we find the month of conception with the maximum probability of having a boy (count the crosses).

Personal experience

I was born in July, and my husband in November, our number is 11. The son was conceived in the last month of autumn, but with the same probability a daughter could have been born - in the table there is one cross for a boy and a girl. Maxim is lucky!

Expert opinion

According to the Japanese calendar, I estimate my hopes of conceiving a boy at 50 percent. It might as well be a girl.

By blood renewal

A man with younger blood than a woman is able to conceive a son. To find out, we divide the age of the future father by four, and the age of the mother by three. We compare cycles: whoever has “fresher” blood wins. However, keep in mind that any significant blood loss will affect the calculations. If, for example, there was an operation, we begin to count not from the year of birth, but from the year of operation. And further! It is believed that a woman’s negative Rh factor changes the picture exactly the opposite. That is, “age” rather than young blood is stronger.

Personal experience

I have a positive Rh factor, and at the time of conception my blood was a year younger than my husband’s. It was supposed to be a girl. It didn't work out!

Expert opinion

Our great-grandmothers knew about this method, but I wouldn’t trust it 100 percent. There is a strongly rooted popular belief that a woman with a negative Rh factor gives birth only to same-sex children. I say with great confidence: this is not so!

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Dobrotin-Freiman method

These 12 wonderful tables were published back in the 90s of the last century in the reference book for many women, “Housekeeping”. For the first three tables marked “M” and “F”, data from future parents is needed. We must write down the resulting numbers. Tables 4 and 5 – the estimated year, month and day of the baby’s conception. Using Table 6, we find the sum of all numbers and display the coefficient. If it is higher for the husband, a boy will be born, and for the wife, a girl.

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Personal experience

My result is nine points from my beloved man against my zero. He won! Son!

Expert opinion

The method is interesting for inquisitive and meticulous users who want to practice mathematics. It is based, in my opinion, on knowledge about the cyclical renewal of the blood of future parents. The probability that the method will work is 90 percent.

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Moon calendar

It is believed that the Moon affects not only life and well-being, but also offspring. When she is in the male zodiac signs - Aquarius, Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, the likelihood of conceiving a son increases. And it is desirable for this to happen on the 11th, 15th, 19th or 21st lunar day: the son, according to astrologers, will be born smart, healthy, and energetic.

Personal experience

For me it all happened on November 11, 2007, when the Moon was in the sign of Sagittarius. Maksimka apparently knew this!

Expert opinion

I am far from astrology. But when women come to me asking whether they should trust this method, I say: “To get the full effect, try it.” And what helps in the end - the Moon, or my method, or all together - is difficult to judge. I give a 95 percent guarantee for my research; I am not responsible for Luna’s tricks.

Diet

A story from life. One day my husband heard that if a woman eats green bananas (the kind that make her mouth water) a week before and after ovulation, she will certainly give birth to a boy. I suggested that my wife try it. The girl laughed in response, but did not resist. Nine months later, the happy parents carried a blue envelope out of the maternity hospital. Dad is still convinced that the bananas helped!

And by the way, he's not crazy! There is an opinion that some trace elements affect the biochemical structure of the egg. For a boy, it is recommended to review his mother’s diet, including adding foods rich in potassium and sodium. We pay attention to bananas, oranges, peaches, mushrooms, potatoes, legumes, cereals, fish, meat, canned cucumbers, dark chocolate, egg whites, prunes, dates, bicarbonate mineral water. We follow the diet four months before conception, and then return to the usual menu. Just before you start experimenting, do not forget to consult your doctor!

Personal experience

Fortunately, my husband had never heard of green bananas or other “male” products. We lived calmly, ate as usual, and in the supermarket we bought whatever caught our eye.

Expert opinion

A girl is born with a huge number of eggs. And they constantly absorb all the “charms” of her life, activating briefly only in a certain cycle. Therefore, it is hardly possible to change the structure of the egg in a short period with the help of food. If we talk about a diet for 3-4 months, then this, in my opinion, is more relevant for a man. Sperm mature in 90 days, and during this time they can really be influenced. The number of Y cells will not increase, as many people think, but the quality and motility of sperm will improve. The probability of conceiving a boy is 60 percent.

Believe it if you want!

• If a woman's age is divided by two, then she will be able to conceive a son in an odd month of the year (January, March, May, etc.). If it doesn’t share, then everything is the other way around.

Doctors: it is more difficult to carry a healthy boy than a girl

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Many girls can pursue a boy for a long time, but do nothing to attract his attention. They hope that fate will bring them together. But sometimes it happens that fate can linger too long in this difficult matter. So, it’s better to pull yourself together and start taking the first steps towards your love.

Why is life not like in romantic films?

Most young beautiful ladies believe in love at first conversation, in the magic of a fleeting glance. And when the magic doesn’t work, girls tend to get upset and despondent, and complain to their girlfriends that everything is not the same as in the movies. Another thing girls need to remember is that guys don’t understand hints, and those who do understand have been busy for a long time. So, get ready for the fact that a series of your attempts to hint may fail. It's better if you want something, say it directly. Another thing you need to wrap your head around is that guys don’t pay attention to girls from the “little little mice” category. So, it’s better for you to transform yourself a little, look beautiful and bright, and then the guy will pay attention to you.

What do you need to do to make a boy fall in love with you?

If you just met a guy, but before that you were crazy about him, then listen. First of all, behave with restraint, there is no need to show that you are delighted to be standing with him, talk. Remain a mystery to the guy; you don’t need to tell him everything at once, who your uncle or aunt is, or where you went to kindergarten. Let the guy learn about you gradually. Be calm, be nice, be sure to keep up the conversation, smile, watch your posture.

Be sure to be neat and have a good scent of perfume. Control what you say, don’t be rude, don’t insult your mutual friends, let the boy see you as a kind and beautiful girl.

How can I stop being his friend and become his girlfriend?

For starters, start finding out everything about his hobbies and interests. Try to find out what he likes, where he often goes, what kind of people he communicates with. Just be careful with your questions, don’t keep asking anything about him. Ask a little, listen to what he says each time, remember. Also, be careful not to let the girl become just his friend. Don’t talk about yourself too often, if you are interested in something, then try to interest the guy in it, teach him something new. Be attractive and sweet.

Make him feel needed

Every man wants to feel needed. Sometimes ask him to help you, fix your computer, or take something, or even bring heavy bags. You can also ask his advice in some matter. Guys like to help and be useful. But before you ask him for anything, find out more about him, what he can do and what he can’t. Because you can put him in an awkward position, for example, if he doesn’t know how to fix a faucet, then it’s better to call a plumber.

Don't forget to admire him
Guys love themselves, and when someone admires them, they feel more confident, and a girl who says nice words becomes special to him. So, even if he did something not very important or small, still praise him, tell him that you couldn’t have done it without him. Always remain positive and cheerful and the guy will want to be as cheerful as you, he will be grateful to you for giving him such kind and positive energy.

What needs to be done to make a guy stop loving another girl and love you?

It will never be a good thing to do if you take a guy away from another girl. This process may take a long time and take a lot of energy, but if you cannot live without it, then listen:

• Do not limit his freedom under any circumstances; if he has things to do without you, then let him do them. Let him see that you value his personal space.
• ask his opinion in any matter. He will feel like a necessary and smart interlocutor.
• try to please his friends. This is important, because friends sometimes have a serious influence on your boyfriend.
• always be nice and friendly. The guy will love that you are always happy to see him and will feel special.
• always be beautiful and well-groomed, the guy will pay attention to you and notice that in any situation, you remain attractive.

Here are some tips, it’s your choice whether to listen to them or not. But, if you decide that you need to do something to make a guy fall in love with you, then do as we advise here and you will definitely succeed.