Relationships between men and women are a rather complex system with a lot of nuances. For example, some representatives of the stronger sex prefer women with long hair, others prefer beauties with short strands of an unusual shade. Women also prefer both tall and non-tall guys, so it is impossible to say for sure that a certain type is more popular.

That is why man It is very difficult to please the woman you love, because everyone wants something unusual and interesting. However, the most popular gift to this day remains a bouquet of flowers. Some men give roses, others gladioli or daisies. The main thing is to guess with the gift. Women often perceive flowers as something important and familiar, but if you take a closer look at the gift, you can get information about your chosen one. Choosing flowers for the woman you love is a rather complicated process, which sometimes causes a lot of problems. If you want to understand who your chosen one is, study the characteristics of the bouquet given by the man.

A man and his bouquet.
1. Red roses. If your man presents these flowers, then this characterizes his demandingness not only towards the woman he loves, but also towards himself. It is possible that he is quite pedantic and prone to introspection. Almost any girl will be pleased with his advances, but she will soon understand that this man is not as simple as he seemed at first glance. This is a committed man who knows how to keep his words and deliver on his promises. He won't waste his time on a relationship with someone he doesn't like enough. Purposeful, both in his personal life and in his career. He knows how to set goals and achieve them. He is well versed in modern trends and tries to comply with them.

2. White flowers. These can be roses, daisies, chrysanthemums, peonies, etc. A man who gives his beloved such flowers is quite emotional and impressionable. White flowers are preferred to be given to hopeless romantics who devote their lives to women, constantly dream and suffer emotionally. Sometimes they simply don’t have enough drama to feel the beauty of life. If your man presented you with a bouquet of white flowers, be sure that in his soul there are serious feelings and a desire to make your relationship wonderful. However, such representatives of the stronger sex have one main disadvantage - they are not able to make decisions in difficult situations, and sometimes they simply give up when faced with difficulties. Yes, he knows how to take beautiful care, but for him a broken faucet in the bathroom or a broken car is a real quest.

Every man knows that the easiest way to win a woman’s heart is by giving her a bouquet of flowers. But he himself does not realize that a bouquet can tell a lot about the owner and his intentions.

MONO BOUQUETTS

Men who are confident in themselves like to give bouquets consisting of one type of flower. But... let's see exactly how many flowers are in this bouquet.

MINIMALISM

By giving a branch of a lily or, for example, one rose, a man seems to be saying: “The relationship is just starting, there is no point in spending a lot.” This approach reveals a reasonable person with whom a strong alliance is quite possible in the future.

MAXIMUM

If on the first date a man presents a huge basket of roses, then, as a rule, he wants to show off - look, they say, how generous and rich I am. But this is not always from the heart and not always a sign of wealth. Most likely, he just wants to stroke his pride.

GOLDEN MEAN

The gentleman does not try to amaze you with the size of the bouquet or force you into a formal framework like “I don’t spend much at first.” He is reasonable, gallant, quite generous, but practicality is not alien to him.

WHICH FLOWERS?
Separately, we need to dwell on the varieties of flowers.

ORCHIDS AND LILY

Orchids and lilies are usually given by men who are overly self-confident. And sometimes completely unreasonable. Such a gentleman will most likely be fixated on himself, and will pay minimal attention to his lady. If you agree to be content with little and be in secondary roles, then your relationship has a future. The same goes for gifted daffodils.

ROSES

Active, confident, self-sufficient men prefer to give roses. But you should be on your guard, because such a fan can crush you with authority and get you with excessive guardianship. Most often he takes the position “I’m always right.” But he is reliable.

TULIP

Tulips appeal to experienced seducers. To achieve sole ownership of such a man, you will have to make a lot of effort. In particular, if you are given tulips, you should know that this is a perfectionist. Only a woman who looks flawless can be with him.

CHRYSANTHEMUMS

Chrysanthemums and peonies are preferred by kind, simple and open-minded men. Some women take these qualities for softness and self-doubt. And they are very wrong. Such men make wonderful spouses and caring fathers.

IRISES AND GLADIOLUS

Lovers of irises and gladioli are energetic, strong, and purposeful. And - very lonely. Being in the eternal pursuit of material wealth, they often forget to pay attention to loved ones, and their desires come into conflict with reality. To be with such a man, you will have to learn how to bring him back to earth from time to time, but at the same time always support all his undertakings.

WILD FLOWERS, LILAC

Lilacs and wildflowers are preferred by men who are restrained in their expressions of feelings. They do not like ostentation and are afraid of assertive women with a bright appearance. It is worth trying on the image of a modest woman - and then you will win the heart of such a serious man. But, having trusted you and opened up, most likely, he will turn out to be a very decisive person who is no stranger to adventurism.

CLOVES

The most controversial man is the one who gives carnations. Do not rush to be offended, considering this a manifestation of lack of taste and imagination, stinginess. In fact, before you is a master of diplomacy, hiding his essence. He is a deft manipulator with whom you will never know what awaits you in the next moment. At the same time, he will never put you in an awkward situation, he will be extremely polite and correct, you will not have to blush for him.

COMBINED BOUQUET

If you were presented with a “hodgepodge” bouquet, pay attention to the predominant color.

RED AND ORANGE
So, the red-orange color scheme indicates that you are an optimist, open and spontaneous. He has everything in order with his self-esteem, therefore it is easy and comfortable to be with him - he will not establish himself at the expense of others. Don’t put pressure on him, rushing the development of the romance, and a wonderful, romantic relationship awaits you.

BLUE

The blue color scheme of the bouquet is preferred by men who are not too happy with the present. They like to engage in soul-searching and often live in the past. You may have to listen more than once to a story about what a bitch his ex is. “If only”—that’s what he likes to talk about. If you become an “escaping” beauty for him, then only in this case will he move mountains on the way to you. But - you will have to play catch-up all your life.

PINK
A bouquet in pink tones is the choice of incorrigible romantics. They love women who are soft, sentimental, kind and trusting. And it is impossible to dissuade him that you are his ideal, if he has already pictured it for himself. Think: shouldn’t you resign yourself and give up? After all, such a man will fulfill any whims of his beloved.

YELLOW

Few people dare to give yellow bouquets. They are understandable: there is a well-established stereotype that yellow flowers are harbingers of separation. Meanwhile, such bouquets are chosen by men who have extraordinary thinking, remarkable intelligence and the ability to achieve their own always and in everything. Rejoice when you receive yellow flowers - you have been chosen by the real winner!

Since ancient times flowers served as the best means for expressing feelings, emotions and were distinctive sign attention and respect for the girl.

But men are still at a loss: what types of flowers are most popular with females, what color of bouquet is best to choose and how to make it last as long as possible in a vase. It is said that the flower retains its freshness depending on the strength of the giver's love. Well, let's talk about flowers.

Traditions and customs.

Cultivated flowers back in Ancient Rome during the reign of Nero. At that time, hundreds of gardeners were engaged in roses, because at every feast of the emperor, his guests were showered with petals of these flowers. In the 12th century, peonies were revered in China, and sakura and chrysanthemums were revered in Japan. There was no cult of flowers in Rus'. The first gardeners appeared only in the 18th century. A couple of centuries ago in Amsterdam there was a tulip fever, in which every bulb was worth its weight in gold.

How to choose flowers.

If you pay attention to fashion photography in magazines, you can see that stylists choose the color of the buds depending on the color of the model’s eyes and hair.

For blondes, subtle shades of colors such as pink, white or light yellow are suitable. Flowers should not be too bright: roses, chrysanthemums, callas, lilies or orchids are suitable. Although stylists say that one bright orange rose can also look great in the hands of a girl with light brown hair.

For brunettes, bright colors are a suitable option. flowers red shades, such as roses, dahlias, luscious carnations or gladioli, as well as orchids.

For fiery redheads, you can choose purple and dark blue. flowers, such as hyacinths, violets, forget-me-nots.

There are also some unspoken rules that tell you what color to give. flowers for various celebrations.

1. Pink flowers talk about a good attitude towards a person. They can be given to a man, a woman, an adult, a child, a subordinate or a boss. Such flowers considered universal. However, many men are inclined to believe that pink is more suitable for fragile, delicate young ladies. However, the young ladies themselves consider this color to be very sophisticated, worthy of a princess.

2. Reds flowers They are given only to those people for whom love is truly strong and boundless. This could be a loved one or a relative. Deep red and burgundy colors speak of passion, so if you are going with your significant other to your mutual friend's birthday, avoid red colors. Otherwise it may be misinterpreted.

3. Yellow flowers They give art to people, it is the color of success and sun. But it’s better not to give your beloved yellow chrysanthemums, or, especially, roses. This color is a symbol of jealousy and breakups, so it can make her very sad. Only on March 8 are daffodils and mimosas allowed, however, as statistics show, such flowers women buy for themselves to refresh their home interior and make the decor symbolic. Men are expected to create more representative bouquet arrangements.

4. White flowers- solemn. They are perfect for a wedding. Do not forget that not only roses have this color, but also daisies, lilies of the valley, snowdrops, gerberas, lilies and chrysanthemums. Purity is what they symbolize. So ladies of an “elegant” age should not be presented with such bouquets.

5. Lilac, violet and blue are some of the most sophisticated colors. Such flowers they say that their recipient is an elegant and sophisticated person.

Language of flowers.

When man gives to a woman flowers, He serves to her secret sign which speaks about his feelings and thoughts. Therefore, ladies love to look into the directory and find out what the suitor actually meant with his bouquet.

Azalea - fragile and fleeting passion
Pansies - pleasant memories, languid hopes
Aster - elegance, symbol of love, autumn flower
Begonia - only for capricious coquettes
Carnation - charm
Dahlia - good taste
Hyacinth - games and sports, cheerful mood
Iris - wisdom, faith, valor, courage
Calla - divine beauty
Camellia - excellence and sustainability
Bell - delicacy and humility, modest and secret charm
Lily of the valley - purity and humility
Lotus - mystery and truth
Lily white - the majesty of beauty and purity, virginity
Poppy - imagination, daydreaming, eternal sleep
Margaree

Due to my romantic mood, I decided to touch on a very pleasant topic. Especially for women. After all, you must admit, this is a real holiday when your loved one gives you flowers.

In fact, plants can tell a lot of things. Thanks to a traditional bouquet received from a man, you can better understand his attitude towards you. And even find out the subtleties of his intentions and feelings. It's hard to believe, but it's true. Gifted roses or gerberas can tell about a person’s inner state. So, let's figure out what each flower means if your loved one chose it for you.

Lily

If you received a bouquet of lilies from a man, then he most likely treats you with great respect as a woman and as a person. This, of course, does not negate his sympathy for you, but there is a certain barrier between you - reconsider your behavior, perhaps you have recently moved away or simply never let your lover close enough.

Orchid

An orchid is a sign of great gratitude from your chosen one. He really believes that you have changed his life for the better, and even if he is not always able and intends to express his attitude in words, he is ready for a lot to repay you for everything that you have done for him.

Rose

This flower, of course, expresses a very favorable attitude of your chosen one towards you, but he, moreover, is almost sure that his feelings are mutual. This suggests that you are either an already established couple, or the man has no doubt that you will become one - in this case, take into account that a little mystery in your image will not hurt at all.

Tulip

The tulip speaks of the undisguised admiration and charm of your chosen one, he sees in you a zest and a kind of mystery that attracts him so much. Your young man is determined and ready for a lot to achieve your favor.

Gerbera

If a man gave you gerberas, know that you are a source of positive emotions and positive for him. Wherever he is and no matter how unsuccessful his day is, spending time with you, he feels a surge of strength, his mood improves, and with his gift on this day he wants to make you feel truly happy.

Carnation

The meaning of this flower is very multifaceted and depends mainly on the color. Red and white carnations, as a rule, express hidden sympathy, which a person is afraid to admit. Two-color carnations mean mixed feelings for your chosen one - he is fine with you, but he is not completely sure about the future of your relationship. Yellow carnations are considered harbingers of imminent separation, however, in combination with flowers of other shades, carnations lose their negative meaning.

Gardenia

With the help of gardenia, your chosen one expresses, first of all, great respect and admiration for your person. This person feels in you a huge energy force, which, in his opinion, he should even learn from you. He admires your versatility, and is also ready, if necessary, to make certain sacrifices for you.

Chrysanthemum

The man who chose a bouquet of chrysanthemums for you really appreciates your individuality. In addition, he is very accustomed to your energy and can hardly imagine how he can be separated from you for a long time - it is in your power not to give him a reason to worry about this.

Iris

By bringing a bouquet of irises as a gift, a man unconsciously strives to express his sincere trust in you, to show that he believes in your future together, without secrets, reproaches and misunderstandings. At least he himself is ready to make every effort to do this.

Gladiolus

It is not for nothing that “gladiolus” means “sword” in Latin - most likely, the man who gave you these flowers seeks to protect you from all difficulties and misfortunes, to surround you with care. But such a gift may also mean the desire of your chosen one to cut through the wall of understatement and misunderstanding between you - perhaps it is in your power to help him do this.

But pay attention - these interpretations relate specifically to those flowers that the man with whom you are in a love relationship brought for you.

And remember, by helping yourself, you are helping others.

Yours Maxim Gordeev

Why do men give women flowers?

Walking through the park, you look with outright envy at a young couple in love and a bouquet of flowers in the hands of a happy girl. You sigh: firstly, no one has kissed you like that in public for a long time (your age is no longer 15, and your status, alas, does not allow this), and secondly, your beloved has not given you flowers for a thousand years.

To my great regret, most modern men give flowers to girls because “it’s necessary”, because “this is how I do everything”, they give it as a kind of “tribute” or “duty”, because “it’s customary”, because this is an “important stage courtship”, this is “part of the ritual of seduction”, “so that the girl does not resent”, because “it is simply impossible without it”.

The most regrettable thing is that they (for the most part) do not understand the most important thing: flowers are not a dry ritual, this is not the fulfillment of some unspoken agreement (I give you flowers, you give me sex and coffee in bed), this is not some kind of tradition ( You can’t go on a date with a girl empty-handed). Flowers for a woman are a sign of attention, sympathy, care and respect.

And there is nothing surprising about this! After all, many men don’t even know who, how and when came up with the idea of ​​giving flowers to women, where this magical tradition originates.

A little history

Our ancestors, observing nature and trying to comprehend its deepest secrets, noticed some patterns. For example, the properties of plants to reduce pain, heal fresh wounds, bring relief from bruises, and stop bleeding. After a successful hunt or fishing, men brought not only prey to the family hearth, but also leaves, stems and pollen of medicinal plants.

Women, by drying them in the sun and rubbing dry plants, prepared potions (medicinal decoctions and ointments), or used them as decorations for the home or jewelry for themselves.

In the most visible and honorable place in many houses there were (and still are) compositions of dried flowers and ears of corn - a talisman. A luxurious, large and tall bouquet, according to folk traditions, symbolizes the fertility and prosperity of the owners of the house.

So why do modern men give us flowers?

Some are driven to this feat by the desire to bring joy to their beloved.
Others do it because it is customary.
Still others take such a difficult step after another phrase thrown out in tears: “Why don’t you NEVER give me flowers?” or “I want gladioli, urgently!”

Classification of men who give flowers

• Romantics. They are driven by a sincere desire to please the girl. They choose flowers for a long time and carefully, smell them, look at their appearance, count the number of petals, fool the seller for a long time, walk from tray to tray (or from flowerbed to flowerbed, if this is a student). For such people, even the process of choosing and purchasing is already a whole ritual - a kind of celebration of the soul.
• Pragmatists. They give flowers because “that’s the right thing to do.” They don't really bother with the choice. They will see which ones are fresher, more decent, and buy the first one they like. Not the first one we came across (we’ll talk about those later), but the first one we liked. You rarely meet such people in a flowerbed - such a thing would never even occur to them.
• Rationalists. These guys simply show miracles of practicality and rationality when they buy a pot with a houseplant as a bouquet. After all, it’s “much more thoughtful,” “much more economical,” and “long lasting.” They can also offer this option: “Let me give you perfume or boots instead of flowers?!”
• Rednecks (misers, goats, bastards - whoever likes and conveniently calls them. In fact, the vocabulary in this direction is very extensive, and shines with juicy epithets). Let's call them unique! To the question “Why don’t you NEVER give me flowers?” or “I WANT FLOWERS,” a girl can easily get the answer: “Can’t you buy it yourself?” (I personally witnessed such a dialogue). Well, if their soul does become generous, then this will be the first and cheapest option. Moreover, they will also ask for a discount on it. But we all know that “ A man ends up when he starts haggling for flowers.».
• Self-lovers or narcissists. Oh, this is a separate category of men. They give flowers, and gifts in general, to women in order to admire themselves: beautiful, attentive, caring, doing beautiful things. They will definitely buy the most expensive bouquet in the most stylish design (no foil or crepe paper, God forbid polyester ribbons are used): only rice paper and natural fiber ribbons in the most fashionable shades!
• Cheaters. For them, giving flowers is the first step towards making amends for their guilt. Thanks to them, many women accept bouquets with caution and distrust, beginning to suspect their husband of infidelity or another equally insidious betrayal, even if the man presented them from the bottom of his heart as a sign of love and care.
• Revolutionaries and rebels. These guys flatly refuse to give flowers on generally accepted days designated for this - holidays (Valentine's Day, March 8). After all, this means becoming like a “herd of sheep”, rushing to the counters with flowers “because it is so customary.” They will definitely come to these counters on February 15 or March 9 and bring a bouquet to their “happy, unlike anyone else” half.
• Special Romantics. These are not ordinary romantics, no - this is a special subspecies. They don’t just want to give flowers to their loved one, they want to do it in a special, romantic and sweet way.
  Decorate the windshield and hood of her car with flowers while the girl went shopping, lay a declaration of love under her window with rose petals, fly a dove holding a lilac sprig in its beak out of her window (it’s even hard to imagine how they manage to do this) - their imagination is inexhaustible, and the desire to please their beloved simply overflows.
• Greenpeace people. This is the last subspecies of men. They, of course, give flowers, but at the same time they faint from “this murder” and the ritual of “offering the corpses of plants.” Although their worldview allows them to devour “corpses” of cucumbers and tomatoes by both cheeks, and not even choke

Well, now we know what motivates our men when they present us with bouquets. Unfortunately, we are not always happy with such gifts due to their harmfulness and impermanence (now I want flowers, in 10 minutes give me movie tickets, or even better, back up your gift with something weighty and expensive, for example, a diamond). But that is another story

We sincerely wish to receive flowers as a gift from men with or without any reason. Let your life be decorated with bouquets of roses or chrysanthemums, seasoned with tenderness, love and care!!!